The joyful and the sorrowful

I was watching "Four Weddings And A Funeral" for, probably, eleventh time over the past five years and it amazed me (again) how I reacted to Gareth's funeral... Actually, to Mathew's emotions. Because it's a romantic comedy, you know? I absolutely hate these tags but it describes the main idea of the movie - the love at first sight, the impossible relationship, the growing attraction, and finally the happy end we've all been longing for. I'm supposed to sob at touchy kisses and not so touching despair... Yet, for some reason, in this movie I can easily skip the love scenes if I can only watch Mathew's speech in front of his lover's coffin. And I think...

I think about the insane connection between our joy and sorrow. I think about the hidden side of any happiness. The shadow card. The bottom line. Flip the coin and it's all gone, it's all history... I've often been told I'm pessimistic and my life doesn't happen the way I want it because of that. I disagree. I'm ridiculously optimistic. Hey, I still believe in love for life! Recognizing the shadow is not equal to ignoring the light. One can not exist without the other. Mathew didn't forget the bright but he lived the dark to the fullest. Gareth didn't ignore the love he got but he saw the lack of love in others' lives too. "Joyful" was used so often regarding him. But I wanted to yell at the screen that death is never joyful and no one is joyful in death... I've been there, that's all. It's tearing apart. It's cutting to the bone. It's not merciful. It's not quick and sharp.  It's slow. Almost like the hand holding the knife enjoys each millimeter of flesh removed... It may be the case. Someone is operating our souls from sensitivity. It would mean Death is actually merciful. I'll have to think about it. In Tarot she is raw power. Unbiased, untouched, uninterested. In reality I find her cruel to those who least deserve it. I hope one day we'll face each other as equals. I know it is possible.

But I don't intend to analyze the movie here or sink deeper in depressive thoughts. I started the post with one intention only - to save the poem Mathew recites - Funeral Blues by W. H. Auden - here, so I can always come back and get my dose of unprecedented love when I need it. Or sorrow.


Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone,
Prevent the dog from barking with the juicy bone.
Silence the pianos and, with muffled drum,
Bring out the coffin. Let the mourners come.


Let aeroplanes circle moaning overhead
Scribbling in the sky the message: “He is dead!”
Put crepe bows around the white necks of the public doves.
Let the traffic policemen wear black cotton gloves.


He was my north, my south, my east and west,
My working week and Sunday rest,
My noon, my midnight, my talk, my song.
I thought that love would last forever; I was wrong.




The stars are not wanted now; put out every one.
Pack up the moon and dismantle the sun.
Pour away the ocean and sweep up the wood.
For nothing now can come to any good.


What scares me most? That I know what he means. I know that hole where no light exists... And still, I believe life is stronger. Light will prevail. It is darkest before dawn, there is always a ray of light on the horizon. If only one never gives up but accepts the painful fact that sometimes "forever" means precisely that.

I've been reading

 Honestly, if this gal had met even one more man who fooled her, I would have started to scream. It became rather boring. Even I can not relate to all these unsuccessful dates and even at 35 there is a chance to meet someone who knows what he wants. The end was so... preditctable. Some of the heroine's actions - unbelievable. Like donating all designer clothes and shoes to prove she is done with her past? If they had been bought by her ex-boyfriend (this nasty villain!) I would have bought it but throwing her own money away... Sorry, not a thing I've seen happening. Some of the men's actions - too. Like getting back to a girlfriend he described as a "sister" with whom he had been struggling for months! No. Real people rarely get back there, especially after moving to another country and meeting someone new. Quite unrealistic.

Anyways, you may try it. It's still funny if you're more patient than I am. :)

Tuscany is still possible

*Photo couretsy of www.tuscanway.com

Yes, I have read "Under the Tuscan Sun", I even watched the movie and cried a bit. I am that emotional . :))) There is one thing that still keeps me away from the area and it is the glamour. Just like Provence, Tuscany quickly became a competitive construction site with bigger and brighter houses, walls, and fences built weekly. Fast expensive cars roar on the dusty roads, Armani suits and Chanel sunglasses confuse the elder women in their dark long skirts while mini D&G dresses turn the heads of the men on the village squares. Yet, I don't long for this. I set on an adventure to find the hidden Tuscany. The one that is still possible even if I don't win these Chanel sunglasses on E-Bay tomorrow. :))))

If you are like me, you would be most aware of the Tuscan Golden Triangle. It's undobtedly beautiful but it's also getting quite expensive. My goal is to get the best of Tuscany without owing to the bank or my credit card company. So, I stretch my search toward the inner countryside.

*Photo courtesy of www.madeincarrara.com

I set my eyes first on Lunigiana - a historical territory of Italy which today falls within the provinces of La Spezia and Massa Carrara. While technically it is not exactly Tuscany, it is practically one step away. http://www.lunigiana.com/en/ The region is so abundant with history that it's literally impossible to explore all sights except if you spend months there. Nothing wrong if you have the time, of course. For shorter reference you may also check the Wikipedia article on Lunigiana, it's a very good one: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lunigiana . Called "the land of 1000 castles", it will feed you with beauty and history for a couple of years ahead.

If you know Italian, here are a couple of suggested websites exploring the area: http://www.comune.fivizzano.ms.it/ , http://comune.massa.ms.it/ , http://portale.provincia.ms.it/ . If you don't know Italian, check these if you have the time or read on my choices: http://www.sarzana.com/en/ , http://www.valdimagra.com/english/default.php , http://www.terredilunigiana.com/eng/ .

*Photo courtesy of www.italianvisits.com

First, to mention how you get there. Tuscany has two international airports, the Galileo Galilei International Airport in Pisa and Amerigo Vespucci Airport, also known as Peretola, in Florence. If you're driving, I'd strongly suggest renting a car. Most major world car-rental companies have offices at the airports. Pisa is generally easier because it handles most European flights and low-cost airlines will give you good prices. For these you may need to book a flight to an European capital from North America and a separate  flight from there with a low-cost airline to Tuscany. Alternatively, you may fly to Rome or Napoli and get the train. It's very amusing but you will be restricted if you don't rent a car once in Tuscany. Here is the website of the Italian railways: http://www.ferroviedellostato.it/. It's not worth buying passes if you're going to travel in Italy only because the tickets will be cheaper. I find it a bit disturbing the website is in Italian only though. Hopefully, you can manage if you choose this type of transportation.

*Photo courtesy of www.metrotels.net

Assuming you have safely arrived in Pisa, for example, I'm moving ahead towards the fun stuff. :)) When you're driving in any part of Italy, do be extra careful. Neither Italians, nor owners of Ferraris are known for their politeness on the road. yet, if you're a woman, rest assured you'll be treated with proper attention. :)))) The autostrades are paid but there are not many in this part of the country. The small back roads are picturesque but do plan more time because they are windy and slow. However, this is my preferred choice to explore the area. It gives you the opportunity to not only enjoy the beautiful nature, but you can also find bargains in accommodation, fruits and vegetables, and wines. Just enter a couple of distant villages and you'll see what I'm talking about.

Aside from the well known exquisite gold jewelry found on Ponte Vecchio in Florence, the red terracotta clay tiles from Impruneta, and the iron creations such as the wrought-iron beds and tables, Tuscany is also popular for its hand-carved rustic wood tables; fine Italian leather jackets and leather bags found across the center of Florence and around the Arno valley; translucent creations carved out of alabaster stone in Volterra or the colorful painted ceramic plates from Montelupo, and hand-made knives from Scarperia in the Mugello valley. All those are relatively expensive, in my opinion but if you can afford it - it's worth.

*Photo courtesy of www.onlyntuscany.com

On the culinary side, Tuscany is famous for the red wines - Chianti Classico, Brunello di Montalcino and Vino Nobile di Montepulciano. Its peppery extra-virgin olive oil is absolutely great and this is something I always buy to take back home. Then there are the numerous pecorino cheeses and the cured meats such as the Cinta Senese, salame toscano or those made from local cinghiale (wild boar). Of course, you must try all kinds of fresh made pasta with different sauces and with or without seafood. Again, finding a little restaurant in a small distant village will give you best price value and often you'll get the chance to try real home made food. You can also arrange such with your hosts if you're staying in a B&B kind of place. Here is an informative website on the valley of Mugello with plenty of info on both tourism and food: http://www.mugellotoscana.it/en/gastronomia.html

Beach lovers, here is a map and info on Tuscan beaches for you: http://www.discovertuscany.com/what-to-do-in-tuscany/top-beaches-in-tuscany.html If you look at the north border of this map, you'll see the town of La Spezia - this is the area I was referring to speaking of Lunigiana. It's right next to Tuscany, yet much more affordable, especially in the countryside. Information on Lunigiana follows.

*Photo courtesy of http://taccuinoditraduzione.files.wordpress.com

I'm taking La Spezia az a reference point because it will be easier to find on a map and follow me. Heading there gives you a choice between three airports - Genova, Parma or Pisa. All are connected to Lunigiana via autostrades, so you'll be able to avoid the windy roads the day you arrive and save time. If you're not renting a car, the train from Genoa to Pisa passes through La Spezia. La Spezia itself is lovely. You may decide to spend some time there. If that's so, here is info for you: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/La_Spezia , http://www.italyheaven.co.uk/liguria/laspezia.html , hotels: http://www.traveleurope.it/itinerari/l/la-spezia.shtml , B&B in the area: http://www.bed-and-breakfast-in-italy.com/town.cfm?citta=La%20Spezia&IDregione=8 , car rental: http://www.europcar.com/car-rental-ITALY-LA_SPEZIA.html .

If you haven't decided to stay in La Spezia and you're driving, then here are more ideas. For those willing to stay on the beach line, Fezzano, Portovenere and Lerici - the last one offers a great beach as well. Couple of websites with accommodation and info: http://www.bed-and-breakfast-in-italy.com/town_frazione.cfm?citta=Portovenere&frazione=Fezzano&IDregione=8 , http://www.portovenere.it/html/portovenere_site/inglese/fezzano.htm , http://www.italianvisits.com/liguria/lerici/ , http://www.rivieradellaliguria.com/en/territory.php?id_territorio=62&sezione_localita=Golfo%20dei%20Poeti - here you can check the offers in other towns nearby too. Be aware that although not Tuscany, the Riviera Linguria is not cheap.

Stepping away from the beaches and autostrades, on the other side of the main road you can find many small villages like http://www.rivieradellaliguria.com/en/territory.php?id_territorio=62&sezione_localita=Golfo%20dei%20Poeti Giucano, for example. Here is one B&B http://casacaracola.jimdo.com/ in Giucano and more accommodation in Fosdinovo: B&B http://www.bed-and-breakfast-in-italy.com/town.cfm?citta=Fosdinovo&IDregione=16 ; two private rentals http://www.holiday-rentals.co.uk/search/italy/fosdinovo/region:21507 ; extensive tourist info http://www.terredilunigiana.com/eng/fosdinovo.php . I just want to emphasize once again that many private rentals in the small villages, especially those owned by locals, won't be listed on the web. So, having a hotel in La Spezia for a day or two and meanwhile checking the area and asking the locals will bring much better results than browsing the web. Fosdinovo has a castle, it's worth seeing.

*Photo courtesy of www.carraracongressi.it

Aulla - another spot often overlooked except on market days. Yet, it has much to offer. Check this article: http://www.holiday-rentals.co.uk/search/italy/fosdinovo/region:21507 Either in Aulla or in neighbouring Podenzana, check the local specialty Panigacci: http://goeurope.about.com/library/phot/bl_testaroli_1.htm Among the most interesting monuments to see in Aulla are Abbazia di San Caprasio (Saint Caprasio Abbey) and Fortezza della Brunella (Fortress of Brunella). There is a traditional "Festa Gastronomica" (gastronomic fest) held in the middle of August where you can taste some typical local courses.

Right next to Aulla is the small village of Pallerone where you can stay in this tiny resort: http://italia.indettaglio.it/eng/toscana/alberghi_massacarrara_aulla_pallerone.html . More Pallerone but in Italian only: http://www.pallerone.it/ . Rental cottage in Pallerone: http://www.trails.com/rentals/property.aspx?vacation=0171464 .

Tresana, to the west of Aulla, across the Autostrada de la Cisa A 15 - check the buttons in the top menu for hotels and rentals: http://www.valdimagra.com/english/HTML/terri/tertres.htm . B&B in Tresana http://www.accommodationz.com/hotel_2940.html . Holiday rentals in Tresana: http://www.holiday-rentals.co.uk/search/italy/tresana/region:21510 .

*Photo courtesy of www.riveratoscana.com

Podenzana - the castle is private, an amazing fact itself these days. ;) http://toscana.localidautore.com/paesi/podenzana-1157.aspx . Hotel La Greppia, the restaurant is well known http://www.venere.com/hotels/podenzana/hotel-la-greppia/ . A bit pricy compared to any B&B, not to mention rentals but it's up to you. Not my favorite as Johnny Depp used to say in "Chocolat". ;) More choices in the area around the town: http://www.tripadvisor.in/SmartDeals-g1582946-Podenzana_Tuscany-Hotel-Deals.html . It's actually betetr to look at these because the rivers are a bit away from the town and it would be nice to be closer to the water.

General info about the castles in Tuscany and surrounding counties: http://experience-tuscany.thriftytuscany.com/category/castles-in-tuscany/page/2 .

If you choose the Genova airport, then you may wish to explore the Piacenza area as well and here is a great place to stay in: http://www.holidaylettings.co.uk/rentals/piacenza/128675  and a picturesque old-fashioned inn in Masero: http://www.locandailmasero.it/eng/locanda.html .

And finally - this is very little of what you can find if you look inside the country, beyond the autostrades which usually mark the more expensive areas. And especially if you are driving. Most of the small villages are not even advertised on the web but can offer best value for your money. Enjoy. :)

* Photo courtesy of www.absoluteitaly.com

Add some cinnamon

It's not raining, it's pouring. The forecast promises me sunshine on Wednesday... Wednesday! I have a toddler, a soaking wet cat, and a book to write waiting for my attention. The toddler is a winner as I promise him a journey to sunny places. Here we go. :)

I make hot milk and add a teaspoon of instant coffee to mine, a pinch of hot chocolate - to my son's. As always, I take the little jar with cinnamon from my wooden shelf with spices and open the lid. Here the summer has been hiding, I knew it! The warm scent surrounds me with stories of long desert nights. The locks of sirenes twirl around my hands, their song tempts me to escape, now! The gentle powder in burnt ochra draws pictures in the cups, here a map, there a house, the waves of an ocean, dusty paths among flowery fields... We travel again on a rainy gloomy afternoon riding clouds of cinnamon and playing in puddles of warm fresh milk. Somewhere it is sunny, I know it. We just have to find the place.

It was sunny two days ago in lovely Avignon: http://avignon-in-photos.blogspot.com/2010/05/morning-jog-anyone.html

In beautiful Barcelona people were having drinks on the squares: http://www.barcelonaphotoblog.com/

In Lisbon soccer fans in short sleeves celebrated not only hot summer but hot winning scores: http://lisboa366.blogspot.com/

In romantic Venice the heat is felt in the heart more than on the skin: http://venicedailyphoto.blogspot.com/

*Photo courtesy of www.aideabroad.com

But my personal choice today is Vejer de la Frontera - a village in Andalucia, Spain's flamenco hot spot. You can see some of the accommodations offered here: http://www.spain-holiday.com/advancedsearch.aspx?provinceCosta=1&typen=3&bedrooms=-1&find=1&x=65&y=20#&&PageId=1&SearchId=2015126807

Vejer is located in the Cadiz county, in Andalucia, in South Spain, ten kilometres inland from Costa de la Luz - the road and the well known coastal line. This fact itself saves Vejer from the crowds and grants the village its serenity so attractive to celebrities which can be spotted hiding in the shades of the marble arches. Vejer is perched on a hill and has tons of beautiful sights to offer. Among them one of the most remarkable squares in Spain - Plaza de Espana, shaded by palm trees, with a pretty old fountain showing traditional ceramic Andalucian frogs. The village is quite a big one with about 13,000 residents. It has been declared a key tourist spot many times. Its history has been influenced by the presence and reign of Phoenicians, Carthaginians, Romans, and Arabs. The Arabs conquered Vejer at the battle of La Janda, and the village remained in Arab hands for more than five centuries.

*Photo courtesy of www.vejerdelafrontera.co.uk

From Plaza de Espana you can enter the old walled town through Arco de la Villa (an arch). The ancient part is absolutely breathtaking, with quiet cobbled streets, hidden patios and pretty white houses displaying iron wrought balconies and splashes of colorful geraniums. Vejer was officially declared a Historical Artistic Monument of National importance.

One of the most attractive things about this part of Spain is, of course, the amazing coast. Vejer is only about ten kilometres from  El Palmar Beach. Nearby are located the Capes of Trafalgar and Roches. Be aware that in July-August the crowds are huge and not always polite. Otherwsie, the beach offers all kinds of services including lifeguards and first-aid medical staff, restrooms, showers, tourist information and camping facilities as well as numerous beachside restaurants serving fresh fish and drinks. However, as a well known explorer of countrysides, I still prefer eating away from the pricy and stuffed beach street. Having tapas in a cafe in the village itself not only satisfies the hunger but creates friendships and brings memories. :)

Another popular beach - Caños de Meca offers excellent conditions for sailing, surfing, wind-surfing, and water skiing, being protected by the capes. During the winter months, the beach the Playa del Palmar is a nature reserve, ideal for long walks. My favorite time is the early autumn - in September the water is almost hot, yet the crowd is far easier to manage.

*Photo courtesy of www.holiday-rentals.co.uk

Historical sights not to be missed:
- Plaza de España

- Church of El Divino Salvador
- Casa de Mayorazgo
- Casa Marquez de Tamaron
- City Walls and Arches

Boating and yachting marinas near Vejer: http://www.andalucia.com/water_sports/marinas/home.htm
Golf courses in the Cadiz county: http://www.andalucia.com/golf/courses-cadiz.htm
Natural parks in Cadiz: http://www.andalucia.com/environment/protect/cadiz.htm
Natural parks and gardens next to Vejer: http://www.andalucia.com/province/cadiz/vejer/parksandgardens.htm
Official site: http://www.vejer.com/
Good page for tourists: http://www.idealspain.com/pages/places/vejer.htm
Entertaining info: http://vejer.costasur.com/en/bars.html
A great blog written in English and Spain by ex-pats: http://grupocalifa.wordpress.com/

Enjoy! And don't forget a pinch of cinnamon even on a gloomy afternoon. :)

Summer heat

*Photo courtesy of www.campeole.com

I blame the heat for my restlessness these days. I don't see for my eyes are blurry of sunlight, I don't sleep for my heart booms in the silence of the night, and I don't work for my feet linger the sand. Summer is coming, I feel it on my skin. The desire to sense different air is growing. Are you on your way yet? Did you plan your escape from the ordinary? Did you buy an impossibly gorgeous swimsuit? I haven't yet but it's on my list. :)) This summer is going to be our summer - mine and my son's. A luxury, spoiling, rich, and disturbingly beautiful summer.

*Photo courtesy of www.lafrancedunordausud.fr

I am going to get back to the land of lavender and comfy lunches lasting for hours. I want to visit Lourmarin again. http://www.theluberon.com/lourmarin.htm I love its calm and relaxing atmosphere, the secret turns of the narrow streets, the squares occupied by colorful chairs and shiny umbrellas, the gites with their swimming pools and iron wrought beds... But most of all I love the scent of warm earth and the song of the crickets in the nights when the kids are asleep and the wine is still cold.

* Photo courtesy of www.vacances-lagrange.com

Then I'll drive back to the Mediterranean which I left two years ago unwillingly. I'll spend sunny afternoons in Gassin and Ramatuelle - two of my favorite spots. http://www.francethisway.com/places/gassin.php The view is breathtaking, the food - impossible to resist. Thankfully, Gassin still remains relatively calm except during the peak month of August. http://www.art-concept.net/gassin/

*Photo courtesy of www.charlesnealselections.com

Further we are heading to the place where I wish I have a house one day - Cassis. http://www.beyond.fr/villages/cassis.html Nudists are still tolerated on the rocks, just so you know. :)) The port is adorable, the heights, where the villas are located, offer some of the best views of Cote d'Azur. Wine is a religion here and has been made for more than fourteen centuries. It certainly leads to long evenings and vivid conversations. The wine carnival is in September, the fishermen's fete is in June. Both are worth seeing. http://www.ot-cassis.com/index_us.php If you can afford it, stay in Chateau de Cassis - a former castle, now 5-star hotel. You will have a blast! http://www.hickerphoto.com/chateau-de-cassis-france-14234-pictures.htm

*Photo courtesy of www.lafrancedunordausud.fr

When I wake up I want to see this.

*Photo courtesy of www.telegraph.co.uk

When we reach the Atlantic ocean one month later, I want to have my evening wine looking at this. :)









A couple of websites for all fellow summer travellers. :)

Gap Adventures has a 15% discount on Europe tours - http://www.gapadventures.com/trips/promotions/yolo-europe-15/?utm_source=btg&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=nl-051310-amazon-yolo-award

Wonderful website with (not only) luxury offers - http://www.luxuryexplorer.com/luxury-hotels.html

Accommodation rentals - http://www.interchalet.co.uk/holiday_homes_cottages.cfm?apartments=cottages&t=Agay

A website full with treasury destinations and clever ideas - http://www.bugbog.com/european_countries/france_travel_guide/cote-dazur-beaches.html

Enjoy the heat! :))

The purple path

If lavender makes you dream of velvet summer nights and cricket concerts, here is the map of the lavender fields in France: http://www.beyond.fr/map/lav_map.html . Don't forget to check the blooming season. For some sorts it is June-July, for others later in the summer. Enjoy your lavender harvest and take home a fragrant memory. :)

Thinking...

*Photo courtesy of http://www.wikimedia.org/

Lately I've been thinking. Surprise, surprise! :))) But it is serious. As I wrote a while ago in my profile, it is time to re-evaluate a couple of things. I'm not that young anymore, I can't afford to just stroll around carelessly. I am a mom, I have to think of the future... Right now things are blocked. Nothing happens, nothing seems to work. I've noticed before that in times like these fate pushes me in quite unexpected directions. That's how I ended up interested in Crawley, West Sussex, England. I know, I'm in Canada... and so what? I even found a couple of companies I'd love to work for and they all have offices in or around Crawley. Why Crawley? It's close to Gatwick airport and flying to France is like going to the mall in Toronto. :)))) Crazy, no? What would life be without adventure? What will my son think of me if I can't break a wall or two? Look at this cute little town, I think we can be happy there...

*Photo courtesy of http://www.geograph.org.uk/

24-hour store! Not to be overlooked, I say.

*Photo courtesy of http://www.beerintheevening.com

Very good looking pub. Yes, I won't have time for pubs being with the little one but he will eventually grow up and it would be nice to have a spot to celebrate my 50th birthday or my retirement.

*Photo courtesy of www.yourlocalweb.co.uk

Very cool! Reminds me of Midsommer Murders! Very British, so to speak.

*Photo courtesy of http://www.yourlocalweb.co.uk/

Mysterious old shabby buildings - the dream come true of every little boy. And it's even sunny! Yuppy!

*Photo courtesy of http://assets.byteplay.com/

I am officially impressed. It costs only about a million pounds. Naturally, this would be close to the advance I'll get for my first novel, no?









OK, so now I've found the prospective employers, the spot to celebrate my retirement, my future house, and even a daycare spot from September. Kid you not. I'm always serious when I'm dreaming of a new life. All must be done properly, research is vital. There is only one problem - it seems I am not allowed to move my life, my talent, and my glorious self to Crawley, West Sussex because I have no visa. Shame on the British government, I say! Instead, I am required to

a/ torture an employer until they breathlessly agree to apply for a work permit or
b/ make another million and become "an investor". Those are always welcome everywhere.

Considering the average value of my publishing contracts, this wouldn't be a problem at all, would it? LOL

Any three-book deals around, folks? Crawley needs me and I need Crawley! :)))))

Do you know Rebecca?

Rebecca Woodhead? A fellow writer with a similar life story, another one who had to fight each step of the road to publishing? If not, then check out her blog: http://rebeccawoodhead.blogspot.com/ and help as you can. Buying our books is the best support, so please take a second look at your list with presents for the upcoming birthdays, weddings, and holidays. I'm almost 100% sure you can find a place for a couple of writing jewels. :))

New discovery

I have spent many happy days in the United Kingdom but only today found a website about the Isle of Lewis and fell in love! Check it out: http://www.isle-of-lewis.com/

Summer accommodation on sale

I received a couple of offers today regarding previous inquiries about summer accommodation. Some of these are really good and on sale. I thought some of you may consider them.

This is a studio in the Var department, Cote d'Azur, France - right on the beach http://www.abritel.fr/annonces-detail/france_provence-alpes-cote%20d'azur_83/appartement_st%20mandrier%20sur%20mer_656807.php?cid=E_bmai10ascension_T_IB_stmandrier_text_LPROP_&xtor=EPR-40-[bmai10ascension]-20100510-[stmandrier]-E1dwlns38hvwdp3yprk48dw3k8cc6af7en65idakvmiferenuml7rwnzgbprd4xtxouamonbfsvq7rtdky-20100510000000
It says two beds, one sofa-bed. Four people can sleep there and the price is currently reduced according to the e-mail I received although I don't see it on the page. You may wanna double check.

This is another stuido, above Nice, in a huge garden, seriously cool! http://www.abritel.fr/annonces-detail/france_provence-alpes-cote%20d'azur_6/appartement_nice_628984.php
Again - two beds, sofa bed but they also have a baby crib. There is discount for the last week of May but you may wanna inquire about further in the summer.

This is a very nice villa for this price and notice the location - you may explore both the beaches and the countryside. Some of the best spots in Provence are right next to this spot: http://www.abritel.fr/annonces-detail/france_provence-alpes-cote%20d'azur_6/appartement_nice_628984.php Even the June price is still very reasonable for this place.

If you book this one in May, June or September, I think you're gonna get a super cool place for almost no money: http://www.abritel.fr/annonces-detail/france_provence-alpes-cote%20d'azur_6/appartement_cagnes%20sur%20mer_585754.php

If you're into star stalking, there you go: http://www.abritel.fr/annonces-detail/france_provence-alpes-cote%20d'azur_83/villa_gassin_655095.php Next to Saint-Tropez, in Gassin, golden location, I can gardly believe the price! September would be crazy cheap for this spot and the weather is wonderful! Great opportunity for a bigger family or a company.

Check this whole link for promo offers in South-West France - amazing part of the country, still much quieter than the Provence area: http://www.abritel.fr/annonces/location-promo/france_midi-pyrenees_dt0.php Above the offers you may filter by number of rooms or type of accommodation - bungalow, villa, etc.

Link for promo offers in Poitou-Charente: http://www.abritel.fr/annonces/location-promo/france_poitou-charentes_dt0.php

Hope you find something, I'm on my way to book for late August - early September. :)

Tarot for places - Charente-Maritime

As promised, I will continue with this series. It's fun and helps me find a way to write without following anyone's structure. ;) I am using my Harmonious Tarot again. So, from the Charente-Maritime post I have these places to ask about:

La Rochelle - The Devil http://taroteca.multiply.com/photos/photo/389/16 - ah, surprise, the old guy showed up! LOL On the other hand, the card is spot on - it shows a castle, a keep which La Rochelle is. Spooky? No, not the kind of Scottish castle where ghosts stroll the corridors but the kind of a place with tough and often tragic history (check the Wiki article). There was certainly lots of fear and fire, and battling happening in La Rochelle in the past. The card describes the historical side of the city well enough. In addition, you may wanna be careful at night, don't trust strangers, especially dressed up women ;), don't overindulge, focus on the sightseeing and do less bars. :)))

Gemozac - 9 of Chalices http://taroteca.multiply.com/photos/photo/389/59 - wonderful! A place where one is advised to overindulge! Good food, even better drinks, the chefs are top notch or at least one of them, so make an effort and find the best place to eat. The houses are apparently nicely maintained and decorated, you may wanna take your time and choose the best accommodation of many. People are welcoming, women are polite, and the geese are huge! LOL

Royan - 5 of Chalices http://taroteca.multiply.com/photos/photo/389/55 - hmm... Brides in this city are not always present at their weddings! :))) Seriously, lots of alcohol, even on the floors, be careful to not slip and break your legs. For safety reasons, drink at the hotel or gite. There are nice natural surrounding, forests, lush green fields, the mansions are in top condition, the gardens - well maintained. I'd suggest you leave any designer clothes at home and especially head accessories. Go bare foot and loose your hair. ;) Be aware that fights and disagreements may accompany your trip. If you are experiencing heart pain or have recently broken up/divorced, etc. you may wanna consider Royan to heal your wounds. :)

Beneze - 3 of Pentacles http://taroteca.multiply.com/photos/photo/389/25 - lovely, comfortable, artistic, beautiful gardens with stone benches and rose bushes. Very nice place to go if you're attached - both of you will have a bliss. Conversations will be entertaining, art and creativity will be abundant, and shared comfort will strenghten your connection.

Saintes - 7 of Chalices http://taroteca.multiply.com/photos/photo/389/57 - um... It makes me an impression many of the cards are similar to those I drew for the Loire Valley. It basically describes the unity of France as a destination nicely. Here we have another nice spot for couples if only they leave any serious issues and doubts at home. You shouldn't allow your inner insecurity to spoil your vacation. In Saintes you will have many choices to enjoy yourself, choose wisely and avoid excessive drinking or you won't like your reflection in the mirror next morning. LOL

St Jean d'Angely - 10 of Chalices http://taroteca.multiply.com/photos/photo/389/60 - Oh wow! The ideal spot for families with children. Probably the residents enjoy celebrating too. You may find yourself involved in all kinds of activities - from car races to carnivals and harvesting. Put your nice dresses in the suitcase and add a couple of fancy hair accessories. men, don't forget the "official" suit. Tell the kids to not steal other people's shoes and hit the road to St Jean dAngely, it seems you're gonna have a blast. :)))

Rochefort - Knight of Chalices http://taroteca.multiply.com/photos/photo/389/62 - oh ho. Any single ladies around? Head to Rochefort and don't think twice! Go tot eh Royal Rope Factory and take long walks in the garden, then stroll along the harbour, you never know who will join you. If he carries a glass or invites you for a drink - that's it. Now, you still want to investigate the guy carefully - look for a Knight, not a robber, but love is definitely in the air!

Île d'Aix - 2 of Wands http://taroteca.multiply.com/photos/photo/389/66 - spot on - it's an island, of course. The waters are calm, the beaches - beautiful. The place offers an opportunity for serene vacation. Listen to the sea birds, surrender to the waves, and indulge yourself in the gardens. Leave the shoes at the hotel and stroll the beaches bare feet. Pick up flowers, shop at the local market, smile, and feel the absolute freedom of your body and mind. If you're creative, you may have a couple of new ideas to work on there.

Île de Ré - The Chariot http://taroteca.multiply.com/photos/photo/389/8 - another ideal spot for couples and families - the blissful travel destination. All is there - the historical sights, the nature - although as it is an island, you may find it a bit bare at times and too sandy, the romantic spots, the dusty roads calling for a lazy stroll on a summer afternoon. Ideal for honeymoons too. There are celebrities there, in case you don't know, but they will most often pass by in their cars leaving clouds of smoke behind. Still, be careful on the small roads - some of these drive too fast. It's a heaven for bicycling - there are many areas where this is the main transportation. Otherwise - get your best clothes and enjoy the romantic atmosphere. Don't forget hats, there is plenty of sun and sometimes scorching but tie them well because the island is notorious for the breeze.

Île d'Oléron - Strength http://taroteca.multiply.com/photos/photo/389/12 - yes, it is strong in terms of being the biggest French Island after Corsica. It is also much greener and wooded than the ones described above. Plenty of fruit trees and beautiful flowers. Be careful for any accidents including snakes, cliffs and rocks, especially if you are travelling with children. The local markets are abundant, the vegetables and fruits - heavenly. Men are strong and adventurous - sea wolves. An exciting spot for single ladies. The famous Fort Boyard from the reality show is half way between Oleron and Ile d'Aix. The island is most colorful - the flora, the fauna, and even the houses are showing the burst of creativity of the population.

Cognac - King of Swords http://taroteca.multiply.com/photos/album/389/Harmonious#photo=50 - business place these days. Many of the world renowned cognac producers have their stores and tasting facilities there. On the other hand, seems a good place for single gentlemen. You will feel empowered, attractive (probably the local women will love your posture and outfits!), you may even discover a new side of your own importance as a resident of the Earth - self discovery that is. Good place for writers, philosophers, thinkers, teachers, professors, and students - your mind will be sharp and clear, you may succeed writing your thesis in no time while enjoying the beautiful nature at the same time. Plenty of historical sights too. Not a good place for party goers and those in search of a blast. :)

Be rejected and have fun!

To all fellow writers, if you haven't got the book, do it! Here are just some sample rejections and below I'm pasting my favorites. This is truly hilarious. I've been laughing aloud for half an hour.  http://www.writersservices.com/mag/m_rejection.htm
Rotten Rejections
The Letters that Publishers Wish they'd never Sent


Jorge Luis Borges
'utterly untranslatable'

Isaac Bashevis Singer
'It's Poland and the rich Jews again.'


Lady Chatterley's Lover by D H Lawrence
'for your own sake do not publish this book.'


The Wind in the Willows by Kenneth Grahame
'an irresponsible holiday story'

Lord of the Flies by William Golding
'an absurd and uninteresting fantasy which was rubbish and dull.'


Crash by J G Ballard
‘The author of this book is beyond psychiatric help.'


The Deer Park by Norman Mailer
'This will set publishing back 25 years.'

Gentlemen Prefer Blondes by Anita Loos
'Do you realize, young woman, that you're the first American writer ever to poke fun at sex.'


Lust for Life by Irving Stone
(which was rejected 16 times, but found a publisher and went on to sell about 25 million copies)
‘ A long, dull novel about an artist.’


Catch – 22 by Joseph Heller
‘I haven’t really the foggiest idea about what the man is trying to say… Apparently the author intends it to be funny – possibly even satire – but it is really not funny on any intellectual level … From your long publishing experience you will know that it is less disastrous to turn down a work of genius than to turn down talented mediocrities.’

The Spy who Came in from the Cold by John le Carré
‘You’re welcome to le Carré – he hasn’t got any future.’


Lady Windermere’s Fan by Oscar Wilde
‘My dear sir,
I have read your manuscript. Oh, my dear sir.’


Lolita by Vladimir Nabokov
‘... overwhelmingly nauseating, even to an enlightened Freudian … the whole thing is an unsure cross between hideous reality and improbable fantasy. It often becomes a wild neurotic daydream … I recommend that it be buried under a stone for a thousand years.’

It's all about a child

I was on Twitter and I saw this tweet about @LiftUpEllie who is 8 and battling very advanced cancer and I thought how pointless is all else. It's all about our loved ones, isn't it? It makes me sad and I sometimes find myself staring at my son while the fear, the paralyzing terror that I can lose him one way or another leaves me breathless. I can't fight it, it lives inside me. I realized I have changed my prayers without even thinking. Now it sounds like "Please, let me raise him, let me see him grown up and happy, allow me to stay long enough..." Why have I done it? No idea. Do I know something which I can't articulate or pinpoint? May be. But I am also a writer and I wrote a short story today where a woman was reciting a verse.

"Summer cricket, play to me
So I never fall asleep
For I've heard I shan't awake
If I fall while you play."

But I changed it now... Because I saw this tweet about Ellie...

"Summer cricket, play to me
So I never fall asleep
For I've heard I shall awake
If you only stay and play."

There. Better. I wish her with all my heart a warm and lovely summer. May our children be protected!

Charente Maritime or how I'll enjoy the Atlantic coast

*This beautiful photo is courtesy of www.whereonearthgroup.com

As I stated before, I changed my mind and decided to ignore all wisdom around me while taking my son to the French Atlantic coast. I will be on a writing vacation which will surely influence my choice of accommodation and places to stay but you may find a thing or two for yourself. If you have a two-year old torpedo, I'll be considering this too when making my travel plan.

Here is a very nice article in Wikipedia on this French department - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Charente-Maritime - one with sometimes happy, sometimes sad history. It's also home of a favorite spot of mine - La Rochelle.

Spotlights:

- Charente Maritime is south-west of the Loire Valley and close enough to become part of your trip if you go to the Loire castles first;
- located on the Atlantic coast, it has marvelous beaches, some of them almost empty in early summer or early fall (avoid July-August when it's really crowded);
- the climate is wonderful, the number of sunny days throughout the year is second only to Cote D'Azur, the average temperatures are about 20C in the summer and 5C in the winter ( note these are averages, it's not 20C in the summer, it's much warmer!);
- the local economy is mainly relying on maritime industry, tourism, cognac and pineau (more on these below);
- seafood is amazing!;
- places to see - La Rochelle, Royan, Saintes, St Jean d'Angely, Rochefort, Île d'Aix, Île de Ré and Île d'Oléron;
- La Rochelle is not an international airport but there are charters from Britain, alternatively you may use Nantes or Bordeaux.

A couple of accommodations:

Between Saintes and Cognac is the gite you see on the left - http://www.giteducalme.com/
In Gemozac - true bourgeois mansion - http://www.alwaysonvacation.co.uk/holiday-rentals/174015.html
In the La Rochelle area - http://www.alwaysonvacation.co.uk/holiday-rentals/196846.html#photo
Nice one near La Rochelle, very good for children: http://www.alwaysonvacation.co.uk/holiday-rentals/121629.html
I like this one too: http://www.alwaysonvacation.co.uk/holiday-rentals/196844.html
If you're into bold design statements: http://www.alwaysonvacation.co.uk/holiday-rentals/628913.html
This one is advertised as Royan accommodation but it seems more like Gemozac, not bad, quite simple but well maintained - http://www.alwaysonvacation.co.uk/holiday-rentals/118403.html
Between Royan and Bordeaux - http://queensville.co.uk/La-Vieille-Grange/index.htm
Same area as above - http://gitesdegarbellant.fr/one-gite-house-barn-cottage-appartements-villas-un/default.asp
Various villas for rent on Ile-de-Re - http://www.bon-sejour-en-france.com/ile-de-re/ile-de-re-accommodation.html

My personal choices:
http://www.beaugite.com/location/pays/france/dpt17/373/infos.htm - quiet, yet close enough to beaches when driving;
north of La Rochelle, closer to Nantes airport: http://www.lamaisonenpierre.com/
In Beneze, next to Royan, one of my favorite cottages in the area: http://www.beneze.net/ ;
Fabulous place with chateau and cottages on site: http://www.chateaumouillepied.fr/ - close to Saintes;
On the already famous island Ille-de-Re: http://www.bon-sejour-en-france.com/ile-de-re/270/holidays-rental-Sainte---Marie-Cottage-Sirene-.htm ;
Something special half way between Loire Valley and the Atlantic beaches: http://www.legrandsaule.co.uk/

Links to local pages:
La Rochelle - http://www.francethisway.com/places/larochelle.php , http://www.holidays-la-rochelle.co.uk/ ;
Royan - http://www.ot-royan.fr/FRAccueil.asp?lg=UK with version in English;
Saintes - http://www.francethisway.com/places/saintes.php , http://www.ville-saintes.fr/index.php?id=725 ;
St Jean d'Angely - http://www.a-taste-of-france.com/dangley.html , http://www.frenchconnections.co.uk/en/guide/city/142817-st-jean-d-angely-charente-maritime ;
Rochefort - http://www.bernezac.com/Rochefort_uk.htm , http://www.ville-rochefort.fr/accueil - in French , http://www.francethisway.com/places/rochefort.php ;
Ile d'Aix - http://www.france-for-visitors.com/atlantic/la-rochelle/ile-d-aix.html , http://www.bernezac.com/Aix_uk.htm ;
Ile de Re - http://www.bernezac.com/Re_uk.htm , http://www.holidays-iledere.co.uk/ .

What to taste:

*Photo courtesy of www.cognacnet.com

Pineau - this is an aperitif, a type of liquor wine (mistelle or vin de liqueur) made from fresh fermenting grape juice added to brandy (Cognac eau-de-vie). The fermentation stops and the result is pineau. It's delicious and a bit tricky, limit it to a small glass prior to your meal. There are white, rose and red pineau, depending on the vines used. The white is made of Ugni Blanc, Folle Blanche and Colombard, and occasionally of Sémillon, Sauvignon Blanc and Montils. The rose and red are made of Cabernet Franc, Cabernet Sauvignon, and Merlot. Have it chilled. If you're lucky to visit in a good year, you may have the rare chance to see the harvest picked manually with the proper celebrations on the vineyards. Join, don't think twice!

*Photo courtesy of www.beveragewarehouse.com


Cognac - this famous product of the French unmistakable taste for spirits is made of distilled wine. The vines used - white ugni, folle blanche and colombard - are grown specifically to produce material for distilling.

The distillation is double and after that the brandy ages in oak barrels. The oak gives away its tannin to the brandy and makes for the unique taste and the amber colour. The alcoholic strength drops in the dark cellars through evaporation. It's important and known as"the part for the angels". Once bottled, the ageing of cognac stops.


Finding a place where to taste both pineau and cognac is not difficult. In the bigger towns and villages there are stores offering the local produce where you will also be educated on the history of the drink. If you have time and are interested, definitely visit the town Cognac where you can enjoy tasting some of the world's finest cognacs and take a tour of the museum dedicated to the drink - http://www.westernfrancetouristboard.com/cognac.html . Driving between the small villages will also provide you with numerous opportunities - just watch for the signs. The cooperatives are always good spots and the prices are very reasonable. For more distinguished taste and atmosphere, opt for the mansions ruling over the vineyards - the signs on the roads are usually theirs.

More on food, drink and general area information here: http://www.discover-poitou-charentes.com/food-drink/local-delicacies.htm It's a lovely website which I wish all the best. In the next post I'm going to ask Tarot about the places I listed here. :)))

A sidenote: Just look at this bijou! It's a miniature castle next to Chinon: http://www.alwaysonvacation.co.uk/holiday-rentals/481440.html