Friday, December 24, 2010

Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas everyone! May the light in your heart never fade and the star above you take you on a wonderful journey in the New Year!

Believe in yourself, believe in your dreams and in your power to live your life the best possible way! I wish you abundance of lovely miracles and joyful events in 2011!

Me, I'm having the best Christmas ever. Because I believe so! :) My heart is full, my hands are hardly carrying all I've been blessed with, my love always comes back to me. I'm grateful and I'm happy. :)

All is possible! Make a wish. And make it a big one! ;)

Sunday, December 12, 2010

Christmas preparations - cookies

This year I promised myself to go slowly and easily, so I'm making only two types of cookies - Linzer and honey. These are my Linzer cookies with milk and walnuts which we made and decorated together with my son a couple of days ago. I hope your holidays are bright and yummy like a plate of Christmas cookies! :)




Linzer cookies with milk and walnuts
(I use a medium coffee cup to measure, approximately 300 ml)

2 cups flour
1 cup powdered sugar
2 eggs (at room temperature)
half cup soft butter (at room temperature)
10-12 walnuts (powdered or grated finely)
the rind of one lemon, finely grated
1 / 5 cup of warm milk with one tablespoon of liquid vanilla in it
jelly of red, green or yellow fruit ( I use strawberry jelly with no sugar added)
icing sugar for sprinkling

Sift the flour flour and the powdered sugar, add the eggs and the oil, and knead well until you get a dry dough, may be brittle. Add the nuts powder and the lemon rind, mix well again. Add milk little by little and knead again, you can sprinkle a little flour on your hands if very sticky. Roll out the dough on baking paper (as big as your tray) to a thickness of about half an inch, not too thin, because it's easy to over bake the cookies. Cut in the desired shapes, and in every second cookie (for example, the second tree) make a round hole (I use a bottle cap). Bake in preheated oven at 350 degrees until pink, be careful to not over bake. As son as the cookies look a bit fluffy on their tops, you can take them out. Now spread jelly on the bottom one, top with the second one (with the hole), sprinkle with icing sugar and finally add more jelly in the hole with the tip of a knife (to keep it red and to avoid icing sugar in it). These cookies can easily stay for about two weeks on your table. If you don't add jelly at this point, you can preserve them in boxes for three weeks and add jelly just before the holiday. However, I prefer to add the jelly while the cookies are warm because they draw the liquid from it, they stay soft and stick well to one another. Enjoy!

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

Perfume and changes

Hello dear ones! I haven't forgotten the blog, just had to travel forward and backwards since September till now. As scared as I was about flying with my little one, I did it, and a number of times. This time I practiced what I preached - facing our fears and still doing what scares us is intimidating, even paralyzing sometimes, but it's so worth the effort. I had the most bizarre summer as I found myself in a hotel I first visited when I was two years old and as I entered the hallway the first thing I saw was a man I've been eyeing for ages... Nothing happened. Or maybe happened but I don't know it yet. ;)) I mean, the Universe sometimes works in odd ways. As I'm a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, I'm full with optimism that the way my past entered my present again has a deep, rich, fulfilling purpose. And I'm open to receive the huge Christmas presents I know are in store for me. :)



Speaking of presents, this year I wish for beauty. Beauty in all around me - in my relationships, in my love affairs, in my motherhood, in my writing, in my cooking, in my new perfumes and in my big box of cocoa I'm sharing those cold days with my son. Beauty like Dior jewellery, I guess. :))

Did you make your wishes already? Did you wish big? As big as you have never dared to? Because I found (again) my only limitation is my own mind. This summer I realized how deep in my past were hidden the reasons why I had never wished as big as I wanted. And I started working on these. This time I am resolved to kill all the thoughts that stop me from getting all I want. For Christmas. And in general. :)))

I must say that my treasure map is also working wonders and some of my wishes there are already a fact - in only a few months. Wow. :))) I am constantly updating it and keeping it safe from hostile looks and people. It's my secret weapon. :) Currently I'm attaching pictures of Venice - I've dreamed of going to the carnival since I was a teen, London next Christmas, and Paris for this once-in-a-lifetime killer date. :)) I'll keep you posted how the manifestation is going. :)

So, to open a new chapter, I switched from J'Adore to Miss Dior Cherrie, started working out again, bought a couple of killer dresses, changed my hair color and my hair style, bought an apartment far away from here and booked my flights for next year in Prague... I-am-so-enlightened. I feel like I'm flying. My horoscope tells me it's all Venus's doing and I hope she stays for long. We all have our time to shine but how often we miss the opportunity. I had forgotten how it feels to love myself for no other reason except that I exist. Now I'm floating on a puffy cheesy cloud and it feels oh-so-great. And in addition, it seems to influence everyone around me... Let's see what Santa has in his bag for me. I hope the bag is big enough. :)))

Monday, August 16, 2010

Risky business

This is going to be a quick one. I just read a beautiful article about the boldness to love. Yes, again. My point here is: how many times did you risk it all for love? And I mean all - money, career, job, your nice condo, may be even a penthouse, your new or not that new car, your nice clothes, your credited possessions... How many times did you prefer love to all of these? Ever? Never? It doesn't necessarily mean you lost all else but how many times did you accept the thought you could lose it or at least you were risking your well designed life and hard worked for life? For one kiss? For a stolen hug? For the thrill to whisper in someone's ear in the middle of the night instead of having "good night sleep"?

I'm just wondering where we are in our evolution these days. The paradox of our time is still valid - we have much, yet we lack the essentials. We work a lot, earn more, buy even more, yet we long for "happiness". Which is? In most cases I hear people defining it as "love" in one way or another. Be it a partner, a child, a pet, a loving family or else, it's all love. It should make it easier for all of us to sacrifice the possessions but it seems not to be happening. I can't point at the reason but I can share something personal.

I write about love. Not romance but love - the big, sometimes painful, often considered impossible love. The dream which very few dare to pursue. Like Romeo who didn't think of his family's wealth when he died for Juliet. Nor did he expect anything in return. He just chose love. Of course, it doesn't mean we have to commit a suicide to prove we love dearly but it helps make the point that big love, the one that carries us away into another dimension, it does take a sacrifice or two. These should be made happily - very important. I've done it. A couple of times. And while not all these loves ended happily, I don't regret now, when I look back. The memories are magical. They also give me the hope the better still lies ahead. Because I've learned already to choose love.

P.S. On my trip - a big victory - I booked a hotel! Yes, love helps. And yes - fighting fear means to admit it and to face it, and still - do what you fear and have faith. :)

Thursday, August 12, 2010

The ever planning and never doing

I just read an article about the power of the present. I know, it's soooo popular these days, together with the positive thinking, you may have already abandoned the whole concept, but still. Because I have experienced myself the power of our mind and I have dreams come true in most unusual ways, I am a firm believer that yes, we can have it all if we only believe we already have it. That's the tricky part, of course. One has to surrender entirely to the imagination to start living a dream while still functioning in the reality surrounding us. Yet, it is possible. I practice daily. I have twenty minutes each night for my dreaming. Just like I have minutes for brushing my teeth, washing my face, placing tons of cosmetics on it, etc. And I am disciplined. I have my phrases, affirmations, dreams - all prepared, all ready. Then I go to sleep assured my subconscious is working hard to bring my wildest ideas to life.

And the next day comes. Where am I? In front of the computer. What am I doing? Researching vacation spots. Again? Yep. I've been doing this for more than two months. For that long of a period I should have chosen not one but five spots, I should have bought all tickets, insurance policies, vouchers, etc. Have I done it? Nope. Why not? Because I'm deadly scared. Of the future, of the unknown, of the imaginary evil waiting for not me but my loved ones, of the fatal error the trip may prove to be... Do you see the pattern?

I convince myself I am a good positive thinker and achiever, yet I can't book a ten-days vacation with my child because I expect all kinds of terrible things to happen while there. I've never felt like this before. Ever. It's the motherhood that made me so insecure. The paralyzing fear for the life of someone else. The enormous burden of being responsible for someone innocent. It's terrifying. I can't recognize myself, yet I know very well the only way to deal with such irrational fear is to face it and do what has to be done despite the fear. Meaning, I must book this vacation. I must choose the spot and just do it.

Will I? Frankly, I can't see it happening at this moment... May be more reading will help. May be my yoga breathing will do the job. May be not. May be if I don't go anywhere I'll feel a bigger loser than if I risk and go. In fact, I know that's how I'll feel. Who stole my adventurous spirit I was praised for just a couple of days ago? Deep inside I feel like a lier. I am someone who preaches but doesn't practice. There were times when I'd drive from Paris to Montpellier in an exhausted Citroen, older than me, alone, not knowing more than twenty words in French. There were also the times when I travelled for work almost 1/3 of the time, driving, flying, jumping on trains in countries I had never seen before... And it was all exciting, it was all thrilling, lovely!

Have I turned into a chicken? Seems so. But at the bottom it's always this fear for the little ones... It's never me, except when I realize if I'm gone, there will be noone else to look after him... Realizing it all also helps, of course. Writing about it, digging in it, looking it in the eyes... All teachings brought together to buy me a simple vacation. Pathetic, no?

P.S. Not to mention that the pictures of beautiful places, beaches, palms and boats on my treasure map are already so many that the rest started looking insignificant!

Places in the south...

While searching for our best vacation spot this summer, I found lots of places and websites which I'm sharing here for you to use, if you wish so.

Airplane tickets, hotels, etc.:
http://www.farecompare.com/
http://www.skyscanner.com/
http://www.rumbo.com/
http://www.edreams.com/
http://www.cheapoair.com/
http://www.onetravel.com/
http://www.lowcostholidays.com/


Spain - from Almeria down to the Malaga region, this is all Andalucia:
About Almeria: http://www.tucotours.co.uk/almeria_information_flights_carhire_hotels.htm#Hotels%20in%20Almeria
Almeria and Andalucia: http://www.andalucia.com/
Almeria: http://www.expedia.ca/daily/enc4105/destinations/insiderContent.asp?TAID=187429&categoryId=s2&categoryName=Background&mcicid=dest.More.BeforeyouGo
Traditional house for rent in Almeria: http://www.homeaway.com/vacation-rental/p606135a
More vacation rentals: http://vacationrentals.travel.yahoo.net/listings/location-Almeria-Spain
Aparthotel in Almeria: http://almeria.torreluz.com/en/apartahotel
Hotel: http://www.citymar-hoteles.com/es/reserva-menu?county_hotel_select=c_117&action=result&county_id=117&inday=25&inmonthyear=2010-08&outday=4&outmonthyear=2010-09&adults=2&children=1&user_language=es
Andalucia: http://www.andalucia.org/
Holiday rentals Almeria: http://www.spain-holiday.com/rentals/spain/holidays/areas/12/Almeria/0/Almeria/0/Andalucia/Almeria.html
One of the best hotels in Almeria: http://www.hotelcatedral.net/en/desayunos.html
Good one too: http://www.hotelcostasol.com/en_habitaciones.html
About Almeria: http://www.idealspain.com/pages/places/almeriaprovince.htm
Holiday rentals in Roquetas de Mar: http://www.spain-holiday.com/advancedsearch.aspx?&&PageId=1&SearchId=-491159174
Car rental: http://www.goldcarrental.com/
More rentals in Aguadulce and Roquetas: http://www.ownersdirect.co.uk/roquetas-de-mar.htm
Again: http://www.holidaylettings.co.uk/roquetas-de-mar/
Good hotel in the very beginning of Roquetas de Mar: http://www.hoteldonangel.com/es_roque/index_roque.php
Aparthotel in Aguadulce: http://www.venere.com/serviced-apartments/aguadulce/serviced-apartment-aguadulce/?sd=05&sm=09&sy=2010&ed=15&em=09&ey=2010&pval=2&rval=1#information;eur;swa20100905,20100915,2,1
Car rental: http://www.carhire3000.com/
Costa Almeria rentals: http://www.holiday-rentals.co.uk/Spain/Costa-de-Almeria/r335.htm
Local news in English: http://www.euroweeklynews.com/news/costa-de-almería/
More rentals: http://www.rentalia.com/holiday-rentals-almeria/
And more: http://www.rent-holiday-homes.com/Vacation-Rentals-Almeria-rr489_p1.html
Rental cars: http://www.holidaycars.com/
More cars: https://www.economybookings.com/33/index
And more: http://www.solmar.es/carhire/booking.php
Almeria B&B: http://www.madrugada.org.uk/
Accommodation in Nerja, an amazing place to visit: http://www.hotelopia.com/spain/costa-del-sol/nerja/
Beautiful hotel in Nerja: http://www.hotelparaisodelmar.es/en/contact
Hostels in Nerja (if you need WiFi, hostels are your best bet): http://www.hostelbookers.com/results/index.cfm?intCountrySelect=45&intDestSelect=2868&intpeople=1&straccommodationtype=hostels&hasSearched=true&intCountryID=45&intdestinationid=2868&intpropertyid=-1&strSearchType=freeText&strkeywords=Nerja%2C+Spain&fuseaction=accommodation.search&dtearrival=06%2F09%2F2010&intnights=9&languageid=1
B&B Malaga region: http://www.tapaluz.com/contact.php
Hostel in Torremolinos: http://www.venere.com/hostals/torremolinos/hostal-los-geranios-del-pilar/?ref=1276871&#information;eur
Holiday rentals (scroll down): http://www.bbqspain.com/
Andalucia B&B directory: http://www.allbedandbreakfast.com/bed/towns.php/region/Andalucia/country/Spain
B&B Malaga region: http://www.cerrodeloshigos.com/
Another one: http://www.casaannabedbreakfast.com/bed-and-breakfast-prices.php
Another: http://www.casa-colina.co.uk/#/food-drink/4532736004
More: http://www.papajohnsplace.co.uk/default.htm
More: http://www.homelidays.co.uk/EN-Holidays-Rental/es_andalucia_malaga_es/hote_comares_r13.htm
Villa and B&B: http://www.villaandalucia.org/rooms.htm
One more: http://www.bedbreakfasttraveler.com/Spain-bed-and-breakfasts/Escuela-La-Crujia_Velez-[-]-Malaga.htm
More: https://www.bedandbreakfastrooms.com/Europe/Spain/Malaga/2521/email/
http://www.bedandbreakfastrooms.com/Europe/Spain/Malaga/1739/
http://www.elazulspain.com/
Hotel in a traditional Andalusian village: http://hotelbandolero.com/?page_id=30
Another one: http://www.posada-laplaza.eu/index.html
Cheap hotel in a nearby resort, Torre del Mar: http://www.hostelworld.com/hosteldetails.php/Hotel-Miraya/Torre-del-mar/7171
About Torre and other resorts in the area: http://www.absoluteaxarquia.com/areas/torredelmar.html
Good value in Rincon de la Victoria resort: http://www.hostelbookers.com/property/index.cfm?fuseaction=accommodation.search&isdynamic=1&strsearchby=destination&straccommodationtype=hotels&intdestinationid=9146&strdestination=rincon-de-la-victoria&strdestinationparent=&intnights=9&intpeople=1&dtearrival=05/09/2010&fromPropertyNameSearch=0&intpropertyid=19854
B&B in Torrox: http://www.spain-holiday.com/rentals/accommodations/properties/4085/Torrox/6/Malaga/0/Andalucia/Torrox.html
Very cheap hostel in the resort of Benalmadena: http://www.hostelworld.com/hosteldetails.php/Hotel-La-Plazoleta/Benalmadena/12077
B&B: http://www.finca-bonilla.eu/index.php?page=definca&lg=uk
Hotel: http://translate.googleusercontent.com/translate_c?hl=en&sl=es&u=http://www.hotelmoclinejo.com/ing/instalaciones.htm&prev=/search%3Fq%3Dmoclinejo%2Bhotel%26hl%3Den&rurl=translate.google.ca&usg=ALkJrhgrgBSgkaKt5Mm7pNZlr42XosC5Yw
About Malaga and the region: http://www.malaga.us/towns-cities/almayate.asp




Spain, Costa Blanca
Alicante, Gandia: http://www.alicante-spain.com/gandia.html
B&B: http://www.villavista.eu/index.php


Spain, Balearics
Menorca rental: http://www.holiday-rentals.co.uk/p449779


A little Italy :)
Viareggio: http://www.belvedere-albergo.com/eng/offers.html
Holiday rentals: http://www.lillymare.com/en/marina-di-massa.php
Villa: http://www.villabagnara.it/B%26B_/inglese_1.html
Villa and B&B: http://www.villa-flora.it/villaflora/
Liguria holiday rentals: http://www.blumenriviera.co.uk/Italy/Italian_Riviera/Recherche.php?spr=2
Sicily vacation rentals: http://www.worldescape.com/sicily-vacation-rentals/
Hotel in Florence: http://www.venere.com/bandb/florence/bandb-the-five-star-villa/?ref=750723#information;eur;swa20100905,20100914,2,1
B&B in a little known area: http://www.venere.com/bandb/fasano/bandb-masseria-casanostra/?ref=750723&sd=05&sm=09&sy=2010&ed=14&em=09&ey=2010&pval=2&rval=1#information;eur;swa20100905,20100914,2,1


That's all for now, folks. :))))

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

A woman at 35

Technically I'm not there yet. Still, I was asked to answer a few questions and I found them and my own thoughts intriguing, so I'm posting them here. It's not exactly official interview, no copyright involved (yet). It all started as a game of truth (tricky!). Turned out to be a revealing experience. Hope you find something for yourself. :)

Q. How do you feel different from when you were 25? 30?
A. Smashed.


Q. Why?
A. Well, between 25 and 30 I felt no difference. Whatever was coming my way, I was eager and capable to manage. Now my energy seems at a very low level.


Q. Would you like to share if there is a particular reason or do you think it's aging?
A. I don't believe in aging as such. Ages are numbers. However, I won't deny the nature of our bodies and yes, they do get tired easier at 35 than they did at 25. But at the end of the day, it is all coming from inside. There must be a fire burning to keep the power alive.


Q. And your fire is...
A. Wanted. Dead or alive.


Q. How is writing going?
A. It's not going. I can't write when I'm lacking fire.


Q. It all sounds rather depressing.
A. Agree. I'm actively looking for the "exit" sign.


Q. Have you found it before?
A. Hundreds of times. I know it's there. Somewhere. What is most annoying is my inability to see it right now.


Q. What helps usually?
A. Love.


Q. Speaking of love, when did you fall in love for the last time?
A. About a month ago.


Q. Happily?
A. No way. I'm a Scorpio. We invented love drama before Shakespeare even thought of Romeo and Juliet. :)))


Q. Up till now we have lack of fire, lack of inspiration, lack of love... 35 seems something we should try to avoid.
A. It depends on what you want. If you want roses and pigeons, then by all means skip the grey and black. But if you want to see your next strike of luck as a true gift of the Universe and appreciate it as never before, take the bitter sip, cry if you feel like crying, listen to soul ripping music, spend sleepless nights asking questions without answers, and grow up. It hurts, I know so well. But when the new day rises and you see a rainbow out of the window... Then the faeries may come to kiss you.


Q. Or someone else may come?
A. All frogs are faeries in disguise. Never be afraid to kiss a frog. ;)


Q. What is next in your life?
A. Vacation, vacation, vacation.


Q. Not all is black then.
A. It never is. Life is colors and colors are inside us.


Q. Have you chosen your destination?
A. I've bought plane tickets, yet I haven't booked a place to stay at.


Q. How much time do you have to book?
A. Less than two weeks.


Q. Isn't that a bit risky?
A. Definitely. Especially considering a two year old sleeping somewhere in the fields because his mother is insane.


Q. I can't help but envy you a bit for the adventurous spirit.
A. Thank you. The truth is I'm still torn between different choices and I can't point the one I want most.


Q. But you bought the tickets.
A. Yes, but they are to Central Europe and from there it's equally close to all the countries I'm trying to choose from. Last week I was told the cheap tickets to one of my dream destinations were sold out. I told them I could fly to Madrid instead and drive from there. They pronounced me a lunatic.


Q. Frankly, sounds fun to me. Despite your little child...
A. I know. I'm sure we can do it. We'll be Gypsies for a month... Or two...


Q. I wish you a glorious summer... I hope you answer a couple more questions when you're back. We'd love to know how it all went.
A. Gladly. I'd love to know how it was too. :)))

I apologize in advance for not checking the spelling and not editing at all. Just copied and pasted. Somewhere between the search of a decent place to stay at and the child support fight, I lost my desire to be perfect. ;))

BTW, how are your summer plans developing? :)))

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Mondial anyone?

Have you been watching the Mondial? I'm having a crazy busy sport June - my native country team competing in the World Volleyball League and two of my favorite soccer teams playing at the final of the Mondial! However, despite my sympathy for Holland, I'm cheering for the Spanish team today!


Besides, since I'm going there on vacation, I want to see smiling happy people! LOL

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Treasure maps and positive thinking

Yes, I'm one of those who believe (or try hard to believe) we can design our own life and especially future, considering we've probably lost the opportunity to design our present already. So, I made a treasure map for myself. It's supposed to be made when the Moon is waxing, ideally at new Moon but I made it a couple of days later. What surprised me was the childlike joy I experienced while choosing the paper, the colors, and especially when I reached the point to choose my dreamy houses, yachts, destinations, smiles, clothes, times, etc. I felt I had wings and spent hours and hours browsing magazines. At the end I had so many pictures that I had to leave some of them behind. Naturally, I couldn't completely abandon them and that's how I ended with a special second tiny treasure collage to support the main one. :))) I'm greedy, may be, but I do deserve it. And more. Now I'm positive the Universe is working hard to give me and my son a big, bright, healthy, happy life. I am open to accept the gift we'll be given and to enjoy it with every fibre of my body. I am so confident all is working well, I'm booking plane tickets, holiday rental, I buy swimming suits and kids stuff for the beach, I choose fancy clothes for myself... And you know, I feel empowered. I feel supported. I know I've been heard and it's such a beautiful feeling. I attract the best to myself and those I love because I truly deserve it. I wish you all the same and... making treasure maps is great fun. Why not do one for yourself? :)

Friday, June 25, 2010

When fate pushes us

Sometimes we prefer to ignore the signs and silence our intuition. That's how I moved to a place I hate and suppressed my anger, and tried really hard to pretend it was OK. Yet, fate found another way to push me in a different direction - men tried to break in in my home tonight. I was, of course, alone with my son. I will tell you that my laptop (lid closed) started playing music only ten minutes before I heard the noise downstairs. I am grateful for my angels protecting me and my child, for giving me the time to call 911 and collect myself enough to look after the little one while wondering what's going to happen if the door finally gives in. I'm also grateful to the policemen considering I'm alone with a toddler and coming super quickly. But at the end of the whole story, besides thanking to all my gods, faeries, spirits and so on, I finally have to realize next slap may be brutal. The choice is surely mine - wait and risk to see what will happen if I stay or grab my stuff and fly away. I think I must choose the second option. For my own sake and for the sake of my child. Sometimes it's so difficult to leave our past, isn't it? Even when it stinks.

Thursday, June 24, 2010

This music...

This music I was asked to write lyrics for makes me feel dizzy. Very sensual and a bit painful. So, I already have the lyrics after I spent the day listening to the song. :) I can't post it all but I can post the beginning and a chorus:


I wanna live through you
And tell you of all my journeys and pain
Yet, I don’t want to hurt you
And captured in silence remain


I wanna lock you in my bitter kisses

And paint your hair with clouds
Until I know for sure
You will love me aloud

I wanna cover your eyes with the rainbow
And silence your cry with the moon
Until I know for sure
You will forget me soon


Of course, without the music it doesn't sound the same but I'm happy it came to me at once. :) And I truly love the song.

Love disputes

We've been arguing on an Internet forum for ages which one is worth more - living with someone who makes us feel comfortable, yet lacking the passion, or going for the "big love" risking to never find it. I, naturally, tend to defend the latter option. The thing is I've been in a relationship with someone who was stable, wealthy, secure, mature, and all other "ure" things but wasn't exciting me in any way. I did my best, I swear. Five years is a long time to check out if it's possible or not. And I'm positive it doesn't work. All women I know in such relationships are turning into neurotics with the time. I just don't believe it's in our nature to live our lives thinking on a daily basis that something is missing and something is passing us by. It's poison that works slowly but with the time increases its impact and our blood turns into venomous substance that kills our heart. Up to the point when all those involved in the relationship develop such an apathy that nothing, not even a sudden spark come from nowhere, is capable of restoring the harmony anymore. And this is not about the natural process of "falling in love - love - respect - friendship". This is about the lack of spark/passion/love from the very beginning. I don't believe such sacrifices are worth. Many of those on the forum say it's worth for the security of the children, yet I can't see it. I believe happy children are raised by happy parents. And vice versa - if the parents are unhappy, the children won't be either. This, of course, leads to the fundamental question "in a marriage for the sake of the kids" or "out of the marriage for our own sake". Call me "selfish" but I definitely prefer the second option. If a marriage has reached the point where the kids are the only reason for its existence, it's a done deal.

OK, I was asked why would anyone enter such a relationship at all. From my experience, this usually happens as a result of a trauma - any kind - emotional, psychological, physical. It starts when we are vulnerable and think compromising the spark will lead to a blissful calm existence. Also from my experience, it's a delusion.

On a more positive and summerish note, I think I found a place in Spain where we'll go at the end of August. Screw the economy, the seaside is always healing. :))))

Still no lyrics for a beautiful song in my head. A couple of lines floating around and no more. Terrible.

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Once again about vacations...

More and more often I think of packing our stuff... The question being where and how. Seems like emptying the credit card will be the number one choice. :)))) Irresponsible? I know. I admit. I readily accept the title. Yet, I can't live in silence. In emptiness. Hitting the road brings fresh air. Having been on a Spanish wave lately, may be Spain is a good idea after all. Any recommendations will be welcome. I already wrote about Vejer here, the Costa del Sol looks promising too. I want to see flamenco. Malaga may be... Sevilla... Ah, already feel better. So, what's the fashion in bathing suits this summer? :))))

P.S. Was asked to write song lyrics. Excited and thrilled but lacking any inspiration. One more reason to look for the lost muse on a night beach under a deep blue sky. ;)

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Today I'm still alive and still in love with life :)

Today I write about the passion burning inside me; about the longing to dance abandoned four years ago and replaced with a TV screen while my feet were secretly moving under the couch; about the golden skin of a man; about the beaches I’ve never seen and the waters I’ve never touched; about the cologne that caused me fever on the street and the eyes behind those sunglasses; about the burning smile I received while passing by; about the hands I’ve been seeing in my dreams while my nights were gradually turning into birds screaming in the velvet sky; about all the shooting stars I’ve caught to whisper my wishes; about the moons I’ve captured in my spells for happiness; about the flavour of my sangria telling stories from afar; about my only treasure which I can kiss each day and it's keeping me alive but I’m a heretic for still hoping to be kissed too; about all the songs I never sang and dances I sacrificed; about all the dates I’ll never have and those which are still to come… Because I know, I do know there is much more ahead and life will go on, and the sun will rise bright and warm tomorrow and will put a smile on my face. I’ll dance again and soon. I’ll be at a beach I never knew with someone’s burning smile and cuddle in golden hands. I’ll love and love is not gone forever. She is always around me - a silky touch in my mornings when my eyes are still carrying the lust of the dark. A painful memory, yet sweet in its bitterness. A dream of impossible, yet forthcoming meetings. A bliss, writing affirmations on my toilet mirror. My bronze lipstick and my gypsy scarf in the summer wind. My hidden self, my inspiration, my belief that all is within a reach of my hands. Because the world is mine, I can feel it between my fingers like the sand I’ll lie on in just ... so soon. Not a vacation I need but a waterfall of rainbows to wash away the past.


I’m writing today about all those who thought they were devoting themselves while building their own prisons. About the traps we create with cunning hands and readily enter full of ideals. About the lies we accept gladly and excuse generously. About others’ lives we support while swallowing our passions and clenching fists when the pain threatens to tear our skin, secretly praying to be touched by something extraordinary. And it comes. One day it surely comes and we just need to wish big, to dream and allow ourselves to get lost in dreaming. Not feel guilty for the five minutes we spend in another world with a different reality. There is always a choice and more than one way to live our lives. The question is if we dare to see it. The door is always open but do we enter? I do. Today I’m stopping the time and standing against the way it played with me for a while. I turn the cycle and the flow of the river that has been drawing me back and my sails are bright and pregnant with wind. There is a whole new horizon ahead. A bright new world. A promise so big that makes me dizzy. A hug so warm that my skin burns. Eyes so dark that my worries are lost in a coffee shared on a hot summer morning. I sail ahead and my fears die with each wave I leave behind. I may never see land again but I won't know if I don’t take the chance.

Those grey days when...

...when we walk away and what remains is a question mark... I learned to breathe. I won't say I don't care, I won't lie. But with the time I learned to protect myself and my child from the pain. Not always possible, not entirely so, not as well as I'd wish to. Some days, like today, I'm facing the evening with fear. How will I explain to him, what will I say, how do I interpret the adults' selfishness to a two-year old... How do I translate the lack of love... Sometimes like today I feel I'm a bad mother for not providing my child with the best environment at any cost... Tomorrow will be a new day. Tomorrow I'll be challenged by little chores and everyday life... And again... To answer all those questions he will ask. Find the appropriate answers without knowing what "appropriate" means these days. But any time, any day, I'm staying here with him. And when I'm frightened or sad, I tell myself there is something big in the works for us. Because the Wheel keeps turning. Nothing is forever. Even the bad. This too shall pass. :)

Ah, and I started a new book... called "Winners". Because, you know, I must believe we are winners indeed. :)

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

I never cry

I lost someone yesterday... Seems like I've lost this one forever. Like forever. Like I didn't have enough already... I wonder how many more? I wanted to write something extraordinary today. Something soul-raking, heart-breaking, mind-blowing, yet I found my words were weak and powerless. I only spent half of the night walking around and calling a name against the wind. I never cry. No, I'm not crying.


Update: The cat came back! All is well! :))

Monday, June 14, 2010

Regarding the photos on the blog

Just wanted to let you know there are no broken links. If you don't see a photo or book reference, just refresh. My connection has been slower lately and I don't see all pictures either. :)

Sunday, June 13, 2010

I've been reading and drinking sangria ;)

Having a small child means reading mostly baby and toddler books, at least to me. But don't think I feel sorry about it. In fact, I had the unique chance to revisit my own childhood when my nights were guarded by knights on white horses and when dragons spread their wings upon my pillow. I am walking again the dusty roads of imagination joined by creatures never seen, yet existing and sharing my dreams. I wanted to tell you about two of our most favorite books written by immortal Astrid Lindgren. We've been reading them with my baby for months and months and we never cease to be amazed by the music of these stories and by their hushed, intimate atmosphere and beauty.


And because we are such dreamers at home, I also wanted to give you a summer gift and wish you a magical, enchanted summer. Here is my highly original and personal sangria recipe :)))))) :

*Photo courtesy of www.recipetips.com

Ingredients


Apple juice, for ice cubes
1 1/4 cups (10 fl. oz) water
1 small bunch fresh mint
1/2 cup (3 1/2 oz) sugar
3 cinnamon sticks
6 cups (26 fl. oz) dry white wine
2 medium peaches, peeled, pitted and sliced
2 pieces watermellon cut into cubes
2 small lemons, sliced crosswise
Mint leaves to garnish 

Preparation
To make the apple juice ice cubes, pour the apple juice into two ice trays and freeze until the sangría is ready to serve. Combine the water, mint leaves, sugar, and cinnamon in a small saucepan, and bring to a boil over medium heat. Reduce the heat and simmer for several minutes. Remove from the heat and allow to cool. Once the mixture has cooled to room temperature, remove and discard the mint and cinnamon sticks.
Transfer the remaining mixture to a large serving bowl. Add the wine, peaches, watermellon cubes, and the lemon slices to the serving bowl. Mix well, and refrigerate overnight. Immediately before serving, add the apple juice ice cubes. Garnish with fresh mint leaves.

 
*Photo courtesy of www.whatsonxiamen.com

And because we are such dancers with my little son, we wanted to invite you to our hot summer party as well. :))) If you feel like dancing: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y2E-M9Kes_U&feature=PlayList&p=CD2788085BF40C23&playnext_from=PL&playnext=28
If you feel like... loving... dreaming... a bit, just a tiny bit hurting: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NnEmE8qanG8&feature=PlayList&p=CD2788085BF40C23&playnext_from=PL&playnext=1
 
Let it be summer, folks! And David Bisbal. LOL

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

From Genova to Andora

*Photo courtesy of www.rivierahomes.net

I mentioned Genova (or Genoa) in my previous post regarding Italy as a possible airport to use and I thought it would be useful to explore the area a bit further. Genova itself is undoubtedly a very beautiful place and, of course, the home town of Columb. The Genova International Airport is also named after him - "Cristoforo Colombo": http://www.airport.genova.it/v2/index.php?lang=en .
Some historical and modern sights you must see:

- The Aquarium of Genova, the largest in Italy and second largest in Europe: http://www.acquariodigenova.it/jsp/index.jsp The button for English is at the top right but the news will remain in Italian.
- The Palace of the Doges of Genoa ("Palazzo Ducale") is one of the most important historical spots: http://www.palazzoducale.genova.it/eng/naviga.asp
- The Stadium - Stadio Comunale Luigi Ferraris, also known as the Marassi - home of the Sampdoria soccer club.
- The Torre della Lanterna of Genoa or simply "la Lanterna" -  the main lighthouse for the city's port and a symbol of Genoa: http://www.liguri.org/lanterna/lighthouse.asp#
- The Cathedral of St. Lawrence (Cattedrale di San Lorenzo) which is the seat of the Archbishop of Genoa: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genoa_Cathedral
- Piazza De Ferrari - the main square in the town which is renowned for its fountains and went through major restoration over the past few years.
- Next to the Piazza is the Teatro Carlo Felice: http://www.carlofelice.it/index.asp?Lingua=2
- The Monumental Cemetery of Staglieno (Cimitero monumentale di Staglieno) - famous for its beautiful statues made by renowned sculptors: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Monumental_Cemetery_of_Staglieno
- Genova Piazza Principe railway station: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genova_Piazza_Principe_railway_station
- Genova Brignole railway station: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genova_Brignole_railway_station

Webcam of Genova: http://www.meteowebcam.it/info/1117/webcam-Genova+Collina.html
For those willing to stay in Genova, there are tons of websites offering tourist info. This is just one of them: http://www.nozio.com/Europe/Italy/Liguria/Genoa/destination_guides/Genoa.htm .



*Photo courtesy of www.trailarenzano.com

For those willing to continue the journey, leaving Genova by car means you'll most probably travel along the coastal line - a good choice if you have the time and enjoy seaside towns and villages. The views are also breathtaking. One of the first spots you'll reach will be Arenzano - a coastal town and a reasonably popular holiday resort among Italians.

The town offers a number of festivals during the summer but it gets easily croweded, especially in August - the traditional vacationing month in Europe. For those of you who don't spend much time on the beach (it's a beautiful one!) there is also a golf course and a few tennis courts.

What to see:

- Sanctuary of the Infant Jesus of Prague.
- The 18th century parish church.
- Villa Negrotto Cambiaso, a Genoese patrician villa built in the 16th century - now the town hall.
- The 'Saracens' Tower also dated from the 16th century and built as defense from pirates of Maghreb.
- Sanctuary of Our Lady of the Olivette.
 
Hotels: http://www.traveleurope.it/itinerari/a/arenzano.shtml
More info: http://www.tripwolf.com/en/guide/show/259976/Italy/Arenzano
More: http://www.webtourist.net/italy/arenzano/tourist-information.phtml (on the left you can check other towns from this post)

*Photo courtesy of www.pher.ch

Next stop on your way will probably be Cogoleto - it's about 25 km west of Genoa and extends from the sea to the Ligurian Apennines. It is also part of the Natural Regional Park of Monte Beigua. Helpful info: http://en.cityguide.diamscity.com/guide-italy/cogoleto-genoa,cityguide,100144197X000XenX.html

What to see:

- Oratory of St. Lawrence, dating to the 13th century
- Orto Botanico di Villa Beuca, a botanical garden

Cogoleto webcam: http://www.meteowebcam.it/info/1251/webcam-Cogoleto+Nautica.html
A little more info: http://www.tripwolf.com/en/guide/show/392206/Italy/Cogoleto
Santa Anna Golf Club: http://www.1golf.eu/en/club/st-anna-golf-club/
Camping (scroll down): http://www.campingcompass.com/camping/italy/liguria/cogoleto-ge/camping-poggio-s-anna


*Photo courtesy of www.liguriawebtv.it

Varazze is a comune (municipality) located about 30 km west of Genoa and about 11 km northeast of Savona in the Riviera di Ponente. Nearby in the Ligurian Apennines is the Monte Beigua Natural Regional Park.

What to see:
- Romanesque church of San Nazario e Celso (rebuilt in the 16th century)
- Church of San Domenico (1419) which hosts Sienese school frescoes and a 16th century polyptych
- Church of Sant'Ambrogio
- Church of Santa Maria in Latronorio
- Eremo del Deserto (Hermitage of the Desert) in the woodland towards the Ligurian Apennines - a kind of monastery in Baroque style surrounded by a 3km wall
- Church of San Donato dated from the 5th or 9th century but rebuilt in the 19th century
- Remains of the medieval walls
- The so-called Passeggiata Europa (Europa Stroll) is a natural path running on the former Genoa-Ventimiglia railway (closed in 1970), connecting Varazze to Cogoleto

Official website (in Italian): http://www.comune.varazze.sv.it/
Webcam Varazze (wait for the buffering to reach 100% to see the image): http://www.varazzemeteolive.it/italiano/uno.htm
Travel guide: http://travel.yahoo.com/p-travelguide-486390-varazze_italy_vacations-i
 
 
*Photo courtesy of www.ligurianautica.com

Celle Ligure is next on the coast - about 30 km west of Genoa and about 8 km northeast of Savona. 

Celle Ligure webcam http://webcam.provincia.savona.it/?q=celleligure
Travel guide http://www.world66.com/europe/italy/liguria/celleligure

 
At this point we are a bit further than one third on our way to Andora. I suggest you stray from the coast, cross the autostrade (A 10) and join me for a ride towards the Appenines. There are small villages there where you can find original food and possibly much cheaper accommodation, not to mention the beautiful nature.

A website to check if you're already exhausted and want to see it all at one place :)))))) http://www.italyhotelink.com/riviera-delle-palme.php



*Photo courtesy of www.comune.stella.sv.it

The Comune di Stella (Ligurian: Stéia) is divided into five distinct localities  (frazioni) known locally as the "cinque stelle" or "five stars":
1. Stella San Giovanni, about ten minutes by car from the sea and adjacent to Albisola, is the site of the town hall.
2. Stella San Giustina, five minutes by car to the north of San Giovanni and about 15 from the sea, is surrounded by woods. Its original name was Danaveta and in the Middle Ages it was a possession of the Abbey of Santa Giustina, Sezzadio.
3. Stella San Martino, the earliest of the settlements, stands on a hill to the east of San Giovanni. The houses and the parish church have characteristic sundials.
4. Stella San Bernardo is the most westerly part of the village. The surrounding mountains, rich in streams, and the panoramic views make it a popular spot for tourists.
5. Stella Gameragna is the most southern of the frazioni and the closest to the sea. Its historic centre is characterised by stoney narrow streets.

Official webiste (in Italian): http://www.comune.stella.sv.it/


*Photo courtesy of http://foto.officecasa.com

Back to the coast - Albissola Marina is an absolutely stunning resort and historical town. Check out the photos below to get an idea what the place has to offer besides the beautiful beach which is an attribute of all Italian Riviera spots.

*Photo courtesy of www.filcoo.com

*Photo courtesy of www.provincia.savona.it


*Photo courtesy of www.liguriapocket.com


Official website (in Italian): http://www.comune.albissolamarina.sv.it/

What to see:

- Pottery Museum - hosts a rich collection of the renowned regional pottery, including17th and 18th century pieces from the peak of this industry as well as artifacts.
- Casa Museo Villa Jor - Danish artist Asger Jorn received honorary citizenship of Albissola where he lived and worked for many years and later donated his home to the city. It is now his museum.
- Fabbrica Casa Museo Giuseppe Mazzotti - a museum of the famous ceramics maker.
- Notra Signora della Concordia - church named "Our Lady of Peace" built in 1590, with a facade of baroque design added in 1903.
- Oratory of Saint Joseph - hosts a wooden cross used during special feast day processions.
- City Museum of Contemporary Art



*Photo courtesy of www.portpromotions.com

Savona is another coastal beauty. It is a seaport and a popular spot for yacht owners. Many of the Mediterranean cruises have a stop there.

*Photo courtesy of www.caprionline.it

Savona was also one of the chief seats of the Italian iron industry and shipbuilding.

As many other Ligurian towns, Savona was once related to Christopher Columbus who farmed land in the area while chronicling his journeys. "Columbus's house" - a cottage situated in the Savona hills, is cuddled among vegetable crops and fruit trees.

What to see:
- The Priamar fortress - built by the Genoese in 1542 after they conquered Savona on the land of the old cathedral and old city. It was later used as a prison. Italian patriot Giuseppe Mazzini was imprisoned here.
- Cappella Sistina (Sistine Chapel) - built in the 15th century, containing the Mausoleum built by Pope Sixtus IV to honor his parents - Leonardo Della Rovere and Luchina Monleone. The ceiling was painted by Paolo Gerolamo Brusco. The Cathedral has beautiful 16th century carved wooden choir seats.
- The unfinished Palazzo Della Rovere (Della Rovere Palace), built by Cardinal Giulio della Rovere (future Pope Julius II) and designed by Giuliano da Sangallo as a university.
- Palazzo Delle Piane (Delle Piane Palace), also known as Palazzo Delle Palle.
- The old towers which survived the 1528 war with Genoa: the Campanassa (Commune tower where the freedom pact of Savona was signed in 1191), towers Corsi and Riario, "Ghibelline Tower", and Torre della Quarda (also known as "a Torretta"), in the Leon Pancaldo square.
- The Sanctuary of Nostra Signora della Misericordia (Our Lady of Mercy) - a church and surrounding buildings located about six kilometers from the center of Savona and best known for the appearance of Virgin Mary to the sheppard Antonio Botta in the 16th century - a time of war between Savona and Genoa. She had a message for the people involved in the war - to exercise "Misericordia e non Giustizia" ("Mercy and not Justice"). The entire complex is richly decorated by famous artists, carpenters, sculptors and ceramics masters. There are also a hospis and an orphanage, so you can do something good visiting the place and donating.
- The church of Nostra Signora di Castello (Our Lady of the Castle) with a large altarpiece by Vincenzo Foppa and Ludovico Brea painted in 1490.

More on Savona and the whole Riviera at this part of Italy: http://www.visitriviera.info/en/
More Savona: http://www.aaanetserv.com/turismo/liguria/Savona.html
Travel blogs from Savona - an interesting way to "see" what others saw before you: http://www.travelpod.com/travel-blog-city/Italy/Savona/tpod.html (scroll down the page for a list of blogs)
Savona webcam: http://www.meteowebcam.it/info/117/webcam-Savona+Centro.html


At this point of our journey we are half way between Genova and Andora. Here the autostrade A10 meets another autostrade - A6. It's the perfect spot for another escape towards the hills and mountains as the good road won't waste your time. Therefore, we head west to north-west driving A6.

*Photo courtesy of www.panoramio.com

Our first stop after crossing the coastal autostrade is Quiliano - a comune located about 45 km southwest of Genoa and about 5 km west of Savona. The municipality of Quiliano contains the frazioni (subdivisions, mainly villages and hamlets) Cadibona, Valleggia, Montagna, Roviasca, Faia and Tiassano.
In and around Quiliano remain several Roman archaeological sites: a Roman bridge which is still functioning in the valley of Quazzola and a Roman villa.

B&B : http://www.booking.com/hotel/it/il-respiro-del-tempo.html?aid=325615&label=tripadimg-it-87581&utm_source=tripad&utm_medium=SPPC&utm_content=images&utm_term=hotel-87581&tab=2&lang=en
Hostel: http://www.hihostels.com/dba/hostels-Quiliano---Rifugio-Cadifugio-031159.en.htm


*Photo courtesy of www.comune-altare.com

Altare (Italian: "high place") is our next stop. Don't let the size fool you. This little town has lots to offer starting with its geography - Altare is just west of the Colle di Cadibona (Cadibona Hill) which divides the Ligurian Alps from the Ligurian Apennines. also called "the pass at Cadibona" or "the pass at Altare". This stuck location and the mountaneous terrain have kept the population at about 1100 families living in as many dwellings for many long years.

Altare’s history has led to a population divided into two groups - the Università d'Altare, or the Monsu, and the paesani, the rest of the population. Although Christian, the Monsu descend from a Sephardic Jewish community of glassmakers who found refuge in the mountains several hundred years ago. They isolated themselves and opted for self-governing when possible right until the 19th century. At that time they were already quite assimilated but they still insist on their distinctive heritage. The Museum of Glass in Villa Rosa keeps many pieces of fine glass produced during this tradition. In fact, Altare’s museum of glass is very well known and the artistic glass work is worth having if you find it.

The museum’s website is here: http://www.museodelvetro.org/index1.htm . In Italian, of course.
Interesting article about these glassmakers: http://www.hebrewhistory.info/factpapers/fp025_altare.htm
Official website of Altare (in Italian): http://www.comune-altare.com/


*Photo courtesy of www.attico.it


We continue our drive along the coast line and the next stop is Vado Ligure (in antiquity Vado Sabatia) - a large industrial and commercial port. Vado Ligure is home to a Bombardier railway construction plan and to an electric power plant, whose two towers (with a height of 200 meters) are visible from far away.
The town has a beach of course but while I see the economical benefits from the above mentioned industries, in my humble opinion the tourism suffers. To me, at least, the water was suspiciously muddy and the town – too noisy. Yet, as in most Italian towns, history is everywhere and stopping by for a walk and historical sight-seeing is well worth.

Some good deals on hotels in Vado Ligure can be found here: http://travela.priceline.com/hotel/POI-Vado_Ligure_Italy_Vado_Ligure_Liguria_Italy-97287206.html
A couple of good suggestions here: http://en.ligurien-netz.de/165/savona-province/vado-ligure.html


*Photo courtesy of www.wikimedia.org



Bergeggi is the next comune on the way. It’s about 90 km southwest of Genoa and about 50 km southwest of Savona. The Isola di Bergeggi and the coastline facing it comprise a Riserva Naturale Regionale.

Official website (in Italian): http://www.comune.bergeggi.sv.it/
Holiday rentals: http://www.holiday-rentals.co.uk/bergeggi/s/20431/fa/find.squery
Interesting info on beaches in the area and more: http://www.globeholidays.net/Europe/Italy/Liguria/Spotorno/Bergeggi_Spiagge1.htm


*Photo courtesy of www.italyalberghi.it 


Spotorno is beautiful and popular. The water is clean, the beach – great, the town – interesting. In the area you can try farm holidays, rent villas or stay in a hotel or B&B. It’s about 45 km southwest of Genoa and about 9 km southwest of Savona.

Official website (in Italian): http://www.comune.spotorno.sv.it/
Very good website with info on the entire Riviera: http://www.emmeti.it/Welcome/Liguria/RivieraPalme/Spotorno/index.uk.html
Hotels: http://www.booking.com/searchresults.en.html?aid=317591;sid=061d00b856b33614e483659a7cabb107;checkin_month=6;checkin_monthday=15;checkin_year=2010;checkout_month=6;checkout_monthday=30;checkout_year=2010;class_interval=1;do_availability_check=1;offset=0;si=ai%2Cco%2Cci%2Cre;ss_all=0;city=-123099;origin=disamb


*Photo courtesy of http://italophiles.com


Noli (Italian pronunciation: [ˈnoli]; Ligurian Nöi [ˈnøːi]) is one of my personal favorites. It’s about 50 km southwest of Genoa and about 4 m above the sea-level. Its native population is only 2,957 persons but its holiday season population is ten times more.

Interesting about the town’s history is that Noli was an independent republic from 1193 until 1797, the smallest one under the five so-called "Maritime Republics" - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Repubbliche_Marinare . In 1239 it became residence of a bishop but later the diocese has been united with that of Savona. The Napoleonic invasion in 1797 put an end to Noli's sovereignty.

Noli has lots to offer in terms of history and antiquity and has an ancient church of Saint Paragorio - once a cathedral, as well as a Romanesque basilica dated from the 11th century with impressive works of art.

The town is proud with António de Noli, Italian nobleman and explorer, discoverer of Guinea territories and Cape Verde islands on behalf of the Portuguese crown. Born in Genoa in 1419, Antonio’s family had “origins in Noli or the Castle of Noli".
What to see:

- Church of Saint Paragorio (XI century).
- Household and annexed Tower (XIV-XV century)
- Tower and Gate Papone (XIII-XIV century)
- Tower of Four Sides
Nice website with lots of info about Noli and other places: http://www.tripwolf.com/en/guide/show/269435/Italy/Noli
List with hotels: http://www.travelpod.com/s/noli+italy
More about Noli (scroll a bit for photos): http://www.globeholidays.net/Europe/Italy/Liguria/Noli/Noli_Localita1.htm



*Photo courtesy of www.eureka-reservation.com



A bit to the west and next to the autostrade is Orco Feglino - a comune about 50 km southwest of Genoa and about 30 km southwest of Savona in the upper valley of the Aquila stream. It consists of the two villages of Orco and Feglino. Often it takes only a couple of kilometres for prices of accommodation to drop, so you may wanna stray from the coastal line every now and then and do your research. Especially with private rooms which are not advertised on the web. Elder people in Italy often have rentals but never use Internet. ;)

The two villages - Orco and Feglino - were part of the Marca Aleramica in the 10th century and in 1091 their owner became Boniface del Vasto. From the 1142 on they were property of the Del Carretto family which built a castle in Orco. In the 16th century it was acquired by Spain, in 1713 it was passed to the Republic of Genoa. Later became part of the Kingdoms of Sardinia and Italy.

What to see:
- Remains of the castle of Orco
- Church of San Lorenzino (12th -14th century) - the frescoes were dated from the 15th and 16th centuries. The bell tower, with two orders of mullioned windows, is dated from the 14th century.
- Baroque church of San Lorenzo in Feglino

Hotel: http://www.hotels.com/ho332083/locanda-borgo-antico-orco-feglino-italy/#photos
Vacation rentals: http://www.otalo.com/vacation-rentals/Italy/Orco%20Feglino/r.jsp?ula-pri%C5%BEba/r.jsp
Holiday rentals (some are the same as above): http://www.homelidays.co.uk/EN-Holidays-Rental/it_liguria_sv-savona_it/orco-feglino_r3.asp


*Photo courtesy of www.brianlucas.ca


Finale Ligure is another comune on the Gulf of Genoa. Known for its white sandy beaches and its views, Finale Ligure is located next to the Rock of Caprazoppa - a steep limestone mountain on the southwest, and much of the town extends up hill slopes. The town has a lively commercial district. The boardwalk is lined with palm trees and many restaurants have open-air dining rooms along the coastal street.

The town of Finale Ligure is divided into three "boroughs" - Finale Ligure Marina (Finalmarina) is the main seaside part of the town, most visited by tourists; Finale Pia (Finalpia) is the center of the town where you can see the Benedictine abbey; Finalborgo, the third borough, is located further from the sea coast and is the old walled medieval town.

Finale Ligure has also its frazioni: Varigotti - popular holiday spot which was an important port in Roman and Byzantine times; Perti - an ancient center with Roman and Medieval ruins; Le Manie - a plateau partly cultivated, partly left to pine forest and Mediterranean Bush; Gorra - a panoramic hamlet along the steep road to the Alpine forests of Melogno pass; San Bernardino - a recent set of buildings and residences on the top of the hill overlooking Finale Marina.
The territory surrounding Finale is known as "Il Finale". It is made up of limestone plateaus and canyons which host a significant biodiversity and important remains of Roman and Medieval times.
What to see:

- The Gavone Castle (Castel Gavone) - former seat of the Del Carretto Marquisses
- The Castelfranco.Caves attesting the presence of human settlements in the area as early as the Neolithic age. During the Roman times the burgh of Finale was known as Ad Fines ("On the Border") for it marked the boundary between two of the main Ligurian tribes: the Sabatii in the east, and the Intemelii in the west.
- Castello Vuillermin - a castle dating from the early 20th century which is now converted into a youth hostel. It sits on the mountains directly above the town.
- Basilica of St. John the Baptist (1619-1675), with two bell towers from 1762
- Church of Santa Maria di Pia, rebuilt in 1725-1728. It houses works from the 16th century and has a 13th century bell tower.
- Church of San Biagio, rebuilt in 1630-1650. It has maintained an octagonal tower from the 15th century.
- Church of Sant'Eusebio with parts in Romanesque style.
- Church of Sant'Antonino with a 12th century crypt.
- Church of San Bartolomeo apostolo in the frazione of Gorra. It has a Gothic bell tower with three floors of mullioned windows.
- Church of San Lorenzo, between Varigotti and Capo Noli. It has Romanesque bell tower from the 12th century.
- Former convent of Santa Caterina, founded in 1359 and rebuilt in Renaissance times with the addition of two cloisters. It is now home to the Town Museum.

Official website (in Italian): http://www.comunepietraligure.it/
Webcam Finale Ligure: http://webcam.provincia.savona.it/?q=finaleligure  
Hotels: http://www.initalia.it/listing.php?lang=en&pty=1&pid=2914&search=finale+ligure&lrt=1574447&lmt=1
Rock climbing: http://www.climb-europe.com/italy/finale-ligure.htm
Holiday rental: http://www.holidaylettings.co.uk/finale-ligure/
More rentals: http://www.vacationrentals411.com/city/finale_ligure_italy_rentals.php3
Accommodation resources: http://www.emmeti.it/Welcome/Liguria/RivieraPalme/Finale/index.uk.html


My recommendation: http://www.inyourlife.com/liguria/savona/farm_holiday_640/welcome_eng.php - Casale - a beautiful restored farm complex with swimming pool and spa, 5 minutes from the sea, in the little antique village of Bardino.

On the other side of the autostrade A10 is Tovo San Giacomo - a comune about 60 km southwest of Genoa and about 25 km southwest of Savona. Surprisingly for its moderate size, it has good PR (and lovely looks of course) and many tourists browse the streets.
Official website (in Italian): http://www.comune.tovo-san-giacomo.sv.it/
Hotels: http://www.tripadvisor.com/Hotels-g1050572-Tovo_San_Giacomo_Italian_Riviera-Hotels.html
House for holiday rent: http://www.holiday-rentals.co.uk/p21296
B&B: http://www.bed-and-breakfast-in-italy.com/town.cfm?citta=Tovo%20San%20Giacomo&IDregione=8
Camping info: http://www.campingcompass.com/camping/italy/liguria/tovo-san-giacomo-sv

*Photo courtesy of www.wikimedia.org


 Giustenice is a comune (municipality) located about 60 km southwest of Genoa and about 25 km southwest of Savona. There are a couple of beautiful churches to see. One is shown on the photo above - Cappella di Santa Libera. You can see more photos here: http://insiemefacile.provincia.savona.it/scheda_comuni.php?aperto=1&sez=7&sottosez=1&id=31 (scroll down for the photo gallery) and here: http://www.flickr.com/photos/ennio41/4111005823/ .
Official website (in Italian): http://www.comune.giustenice.sv.it/

 
 
*Photo courtesy of www.marina-di-loano.com

Back to the coast, you're going to reach Loano - a comune located about 60 km southwest of Genoa and about 30 km southwest of Savona. Loano has a frazione - Verzi. Loano has a great beach, very long, with calm waters, and an interesting historical center. It's a popular resort, so book in advance or visit the villages on the other side of the austostrade for cheaper accommodation. The twon is also a popular yacht port and the marina is extensive - the photos above and the website next to them will give you a better idea.

Official website (in Italian): http://www.comuneloano.it/
Webcam Loano: http://webcam.provincia.savona.it/?q=loano
Extensive info (in Italian): http://www.loano.net/
History and sight-seeing: http://www.world66.com/europe/italy/liguria/rivieradellepalme/loano
Very nice accommodation website: http://www.loano2village.it/en/Home-Page
Kite sports on the Italian Riviera and in Loano: http://www.kitebeaches.com/kitesurf/loc/loano.html
Big tourist complex: http://www.italybookhotel.com/hotel/italy/loano-2-village.en.html?gclid=CMuvnJfGjqICFciA5QodyUGAVQ


*Photo courtesy of www.globeholidays.net

Next on the coastal line is Borghetto Santo Spirito - located about 70 km southwest of Genoa and about 30 km southwest of Savona. The town got some negative publicity and is usually referred to as a nasty example of urban explosion because of the talll apartment buildings and extensive construction done in the 60s - 70s in difference from the "softer" approach in architecture and urban planning followed by most nearby Comuni. However, if you're coming from a big city, especially North American, I dare to say the buildings won't impress or bother you much. ;) No doubt it would have been better to avoid the massive construction but it's not worse than in many average resorts worldwide. And the town still has plenty of unspoiled areas, especially a bit further from the sea.
Official website (in Italian): http://www.comuneborghetto.it/
Webcam Borghetto Santo Spirito: http://www.meteowebcam.it/info/2485/webcam-Borghetto+Santo+Spirito.html
B&B: http://www.bed-and-breakfast-in-italy.com/town.cfm?citta=Borghetto%20Santo%20Spirito&IDregione=8
Holiday rental flat: http://www.homelidays.co.uk/EN-Holidays-Rental/it_liguria_sv-savona_it/appar_borghetto-santo-spirito_r13.asp
One of the cheaper hotels (you can write them in English): http://www.rivieraligure.it/IT/borghetto-santo-spirito-hotel-borghetto.k7c131h545.htm
One of the privately owned beaches: http://www.solemarebeach.com/en/bathing-establishment-borghetto-santo-spirito.htm


*Photo courtesy of www.telefonica.net

Ceriale is the next coastal spot - a nice little place, about 70 km southwest of Genoa and about 30 km southwest of Savona. It has a frazione - Peagna.

Official website (in Italian): http://www.comune.ceriale.sv.it/servizi/notizie/notizie_homepage.aspx
Webcam Ceriale: http://webcam.provincia.savona.it/?q=ceriale
An interesting website with photos and holiday rental offers for the entire area: http://www.telefonica.net/web2/fransmannot/english%20version.htm
History and sight-seeing: http://www.world66.com/europe/italy/liguria/ceriale
An idea on accommodation: http://www.sabrinaresidence.com/eng/ceriale.liguria.residence.php
Another one: http://www.traveleurope.it/scheda.php
More accommodation: http://www.zoover.co.uk/italy/liguria/ceriale


*Photo courtesy of www.ciaociaoitaly.com

To give you a couple more options for staying on the other side of the autostrade, Toirano is a small comune located about 70 km southwest of Genoa and about 30 km southwest of Savona. It is well known for its impressive caves.

Toirano Caves: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Toirano_Caves
This is a nice website with good info on history and historical objects: http://www.lifeinitaly.com/tourism/liguria/toirano
The few accommodations advertised on the Internet: http://www.paesionline.it/liguria/toirano/hotel_alberghi_toirano.asp :)))
A travel blog post on Toirano's caves: http://www.travelpod.com/travel-blog-entries/heligypsy/1/1227998040/tpod.html


My recommendation: http://www.ferienhit.com/english.htm - the family offers rental accommodations in the beautiful Ligurian countryside.


*Photo courtesy of www.tripwolf.com

Further west into the mainland is Balestrino - located about 70 km southwest of Genoa and about 30 km southwest of Savona. It is a bit famous for being abandoned by the majority of its population once as you can read here (scroll down): http://tobatheinfilmicwaters.com/2009/06/26/list-top-10-most-interesting-abandoned-places-part-1/ .  In fact, things are not that dramatic. :))) The town (village) is inhabited and only the older part is abandoned. Fear not. :)))

Official website (in Italian): http://www.balestrino.org/Home.html
Real Estate agencies are always a good source of info: http://www.italy-riviera-realestate.com/article.php?article_no=38
There is a small but charming hotel: http://www.travelitalia.com/en/hotels/balestrino/3276/



*Photo courtesy of www.enrosadira.it

A bit further west is the town of Castelvecchio di Rocca Barbena - located about 70 km southwest of Genoa and about 35 km southwest of Savona.
A nice website about the small villages in the area: http://www.colletta.it/region/district/castelvecchio/
The website of the tourism organization: http://www.anticomelo.it/# The English language button seems to not work but you can write them in English and hope. :))

You can also stay in a holiday villa in the nearby village Erli: http://www.palmenriviera.us/Liguria/Holiday-Homes/Erli/Casa_nei_Castagni/

On your way back towards the autostrade will lie Zuccarello - a comune about 70 km southwest of Genoa and about 35 km southwest of Savona. It's about 15 minutes drive from the sea. The village has all necessary services and even a resort is been built - actually restored - Antico Feudo Resort: http://www.anticofeudoresort.it/En/Home/Home.htm . It's amusing how close the sea is shown on the pictures (the village is in the mountain) and how the location varies between Zuccarello and Castelvecchio. :)))) Oh well, who cares. ;)
Official website (in Italian): http://www.comunezuccarello.it/
360 degree images of Zuccarello and some other villages: http://www.360cities.net/image/zuccarello-medieval-covered-walkway-liguria-italy#239.00,-10.40,80.0 (scroll down too)
Typical apartment in an old house: http://www.iha.com/Vacation-rental/Italy/Liguria/Savona-province/Zuccarello/Apartment-Flat/Il-Sospiro-di-Ilaria_44304_1.htm (scroll down for offers in the nearby villages)


*Photo courtesy of www.comune.cisanosulneva.sv.it

Before you reach the autostrade, you'll pass through one more town - Cisano sul Neva (Ligurian: Cixan) - a comune located about 70 km southwest of Genoa and about 35 km southwest of Savona in Val Neva - the valley of the Neva river. More on the villages in Val Neva: http://www.borghitalia.it/html/borgo_en.php?codice_borgo=908 . Historically known as Chinsasakatsed, the town was part of the Marca Aleramica in the 10th century and is an ancient place worth visiting.

What to see:

- Parish church of Santa Maria Maddalena (17th century)
- The Romanesque church of San Calogero (11th century)
- The Castle of the Rolandi Ricci del Carretto in the frazione of Conscente (15th century)
- The Saracen Tower outside the town on the road towards Albenga dated around the 2nd century AD

Official website (in Italian): http://www.comune.cisanosulneva.sv.it/  
B&B: http://www.bed-and-breakfast-in-italy.com/pagina.cfm?ID=14538&IDregione=8  

Apartment for 6 people with baby equipment: http://www1.iha.com/Charming-vacation-rental/Italy/Liguria/Savona-province/Cisano-sul-neva/Charming-triplex-apartment/Elisa-Luna_13199_1.htm&x=.umqkqvwkvjvv66-:jtri@u66A51vgtwmiqrp68HBFC-:jtfmsczymomqv6982B3-:jtxqonm3CBB341qqu@scoj631fjs3Fs7a@i

 
 
*Photo courtesy of www.ilponente.com 

Back on the coast again! Albenga is a town situated on the Gulf of Genoa on the Riviera. The economy is, naturally, based on tourism, local commerce and agriculture. The city is of Celtic origins, was the chief town of the Ligures, and flourished under the Roman Empire thanks to its location which offered access from the coast to the countryside and the Via Julia Augusta - the Roman coast road opened in 13 BC. From the mid-5th century Albenga was the seat of a bishopric. Its early Christian baptistery, perhaps dating to the 5th century, is now ten feet below modern street level. Alluvial deposits washed down by the torrential Centa have gradually buried the southern section of Roman Albingaunum and its port. (by Wikipedia).

Albenga has a very well-preserved historic centre, it's a beautiful place to visit, still showing the Roman plan with its grid planning and surrounded by its ancient walls. Four of the medieval tower houses and other houses built to the Roman plan round a courtyard are still standing. The beach is just as good as in any other town nearby, meaning "very good".

What to see:

- Albenga Cathedral, dedicated to Saint Michael the Archangel
- Palaeo-Christian Baptistery (5th century) - check the ancient polychrome mosaic
- Palazzo Peloso Cipolla (16th century)
- Municipal towers including Torre del Municipio, Torre del Vecchio Comune (seat of the Ingaunian Town Museum) and Torre Costa
- Roman Amphitheatre (2nd-3rd centuries AD)
- Necropolis, on the Via Iulia Augusta
- Roman baths

Good website: http://www.rivieraligure.it/IT/albenga.k3c5.htm
Albenga has a so called "international airport" although it serves mainly domestic flights: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Villanova_d%27Albenga_International_Airport , http://www.rivierairport.it/english/index.htm
Webcam Albenga: http://www.meteowebcam.it/info/2678/webcam-Albenga.html
Search for rentals: http://www.blumenriviera.com/Italy/Italian_Riviera/Travelguide_Liguria/Municipalities/Albenga/ and scroll down for lots of additional info
Couple of accommodations: http://www.venere.com/italy/albenga/


*Photo courtesy of www.italyalberghi.it

Next to last stop before Andora - Alassio. It is best known as a health resort in the winter and, of course, a beach spot in the summer. The town was settled in the Middle Ages when valley inhabitants started coming down to the sea to fish. According to the legend, the name derives from that of Adelasia, daughter of Emperor Otto I. (Wikipedia) Control of the town was eventually taken by the monks from the island of Gallinara and later by the commune of Albenga.

What to see:

- The Muretto of Alassio - a wall with 550 tiles signed by celebrities
- Parish church of St. Ambrose
- Palazzo Ferrero de Gubernatis Ventimiglia.
- Saracen Tower

Alassio also has a very nice website and (behold!) in English: http://www.comune.alassio.sv.it/turistico/eng/default.asp
There are many, many hotels: http://www.eureka-reservation.com/italy/hotels_alassio/
 

Finally, last stop before Andora is the little coastal town of Laigueglia.
Aerial view of Laigueglia in the 1970s. Nearby is the Capo Mele Lighthouse - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Capo_Mele_Lighthouse
Official website: http://www.comunelaigueglia.net/
Webcam Laigueglia: http://www.laigueglia.net/
Rental villa in Laigueglia: http://www.holiday-rentals.co.uk/p512412
Hotels and reviews: http://www.tripadvisor.com/Hotels-g194786-Laigueglia_Italian_Riviera-Hotels.html


Websites of general interest dedicated to this part of the Italian Riviera and Liguria:
Liguria Travel Guide: http://www.filcoo.com/en/italy/tg/liguria_travel_guide.htm

Welcome to Liguria: http://www.italianvisits.com/liguria/savona/index.htm

Accommodation in the Province of Savona: http://www.italyworldclub.com/hotels-italy/liguria/province-savona/

Online books – fiction about Italy: http://italophiles.com/vonarnim.htm

Travel blogs and travel news: http://www.travelpod.com/